[jen1447]

Wow, really? I'll try to push myself to do it. I do not know why, but I feel like a violator when I think about doing it. I do not understand why as I am OK with it in person, but just the thought of watching her over face time makes me extremely nervous. So when you say to do it, are you saying that because her experience will be more intense or because you just think the idea is hot?

Well the idea is hot, but the bigger reasons are that because she's asking you to do it, that means the experience will definitely be more intense for her (so everybody wins), and even more importantly, this is an important thing for her - that she wants to share with you. You're in the complete and utter sweet spot here because she's being totally open and vulnerable to you with this most 'private' and intimate thing, which means she trusts you implicitly. Don't do anything to change that.

I got more details from my GF. She said the G spot orgasm was amazing, and when she pulled it out after being finished that all this liquid came out. She did not have a G spot orgasm the first time she used it (we were together at the time), but that's because we were vibrator virgins. +1 vote for the powder blue.

Another squirt victory! I'd be curious to know what her squirt was like - creamy/clear mix, more volume, less shoot (sounds like it but when it comes out like you're overturning a pail of water that's amazing too) etc. The future looks very bright for you both.

I already have some ideas for what I'd do to take it to the next level now, but that's just how my devious mind works.

[quietlykinky]

Yea i started checking Amazon after i ordered my first one from athenas and saw how bad i got screwed on three price lol I'll have to go check it out!!

[quietlykinky]

I thought squrting was when it actually like squirted out of you? Sorry I'm new to a lot of this

[Motorguy]

I thought squrting was when it actually like squirted out of you? Sorry I'm new to a lot of this

It's only way to best describe it is by saying squirting.

[jen1447]

Well technically 'squirt' just refers to any female ejaculation, no matter how it comes out, and 'gush' is commonly used to describe the same thing. For me, squirt is when it flies out (usually clit orgasms), and gush is when it gushes out (usually g-spot/vaginal/total body orgasms). Think of gush as a garden hose at low pressure, and squirt can be anything from the kitchen faucet to a supersoaker squirt gun.

[quietlykinky]

Thanx for clarifying i love the way you described it! Haha

[Something_Awesome]

Well the idea is hot, but the bigger reasons are that because she's asking you to do it, that means the experience will definitely be more intense for her (so everybody wins), and even more importantly, this is an important thing for her - that she wants to share with you. You're in the complete and utter sweet spot here because she's being totally open and vulnerable to you with this most 'private' and intimate thing, which means she trusts you implicitly. Don't do anything to change that.


Another squirt victory! I'd be curious to know what her squirt was like - creamy/clear mix, more volume, less shoot (sounds like it but when it comes out like you're overturning a pail of water that's amazing too) etc. The future looks very bright for you both.

I already have some ideas for what I'd do to take it to the next level now, but that's just how my devious mind works.

Wow and thanks. Ok, just to get this out of the way, I'm taking full credit for all this stuff My GF does not know that some lady over the internet named "Jen1447" has recommended me the Iris, MIA2, and convinced me to go along with the facetime thing. I know, it's a selfish world we live in.

My GF was recommended certain vibrators by her friend who is really open about this stuff, and I said "babe, I did extensive research I know what to get" (which I technically did, you were the source I used to make an educated purchase). She texted me pics of a vibrator she was pushing that didn't look cute at all (and I know she likes cute), but she had the testimonial of her friend, so that convinced her. It wasn't a Lelo brand either. I know you said the build quality of Lelo was real good (which is important) so I told her to forget her friend's recommendation because it's not Lelo. "Lelo is the Ferrari of vibrators" I said... lmao. And then I said "babe, Hustler even has its own section reserved specially for Lelo," so she finally caved in. This convo happened while at Hustler. So great job Jen. She was totally pleased by the look and the toy's effectiveness.

As for the facetime thing, I couldn't resist instilling fear in her by saying that I was gonna snap pics on the ipad while she did it Told her I was joking though. I wouldn't do that. Only thing I am wondering is if she is going to make me watch her face or her "flower" (maybe both?) while she does it. Don't know if it happens tonight though.

Jen, what did you have in mind for taking it to the next level? My GF already started researching new toys and she wants me to get the Lelo IDA. I saw a video on it and still can't figure it out. It goes inside the female while the male is also inside and it vibrates and stimulates both parties. Like... I can't imagine a toy and me fitting down there without causing pain to both of us.

[jj007]

There is for my other half. Normal sit on top or use another part of my body she will always come multiple times. Now for a guy I can too multiple over a few minutes (like my partner - not one and wait ten mins), but a constant. I have been training myself via masturbation and finally did this for my wife during doggie - when I go this way my appendage goes softer. Now she went nuts she went like a balloon inside wile still holding the girth of mine inside - so mine was cumming and flopping like crazy inside and hitting her G that was really noticeable since I was softer. She found it to be too intense and long lasting, but enjoyed it. Finish up and she punished me somewhat!! I have and she has tried to find the big G, but never could. Now we both know how to get it going, but that means I have to do the multiple - which is fine. But having bored you all that, she still prefers her intense multiples and cannot go without.

Think you have to let go and experiment, don't pressure yourself. I think what I tried to illustrate is not many women always get a G orgasm, it may have to do with being turned on in a major way.

[jen1447]

Wow and thanks. Ok, just to get this out of the way, I'm taking full credit for all this stuff My GF does not know that some lady over the internet named "Jen1447" has recommended me the Iris, MIA2, and convinced me to go along with the facetime thing. I know, it's a selfish world we live in.

Ha-ha, I'm certainly not looking for any credit, so that's fine. My goal is just to get more women having more orgasms more of the time because world peace will follow. Seriously tho, one thing concerns me a bit - well, a couple. One, would she think it was weird that you were getting info/hanging out on a message board like this? And two, would she be offended if she found out that you were 'secretly?' You might want to tell her. As you know there are plenty of guys here and it's not strange that they are, so I don't see a lot of risk there. And you can still take all the credit lol. None of that's any of my business tho obviously, just adding my two cents. Secrets are generally not good, especially if you two are firing on all cylinders otherwise like you are.

"Lelo is the Ferrari of vibrators" I said

That's actually a great line. Any time you can show her (without being patronizing) that her pleasure and well-being are vital to you, you're scoring big points. She doesn't sound high maintenance, but while most of us aren't, the plain fact is that we do like higher end things in some cases. One of those cases tends to be (and should be) what we put in our vaginas, because our Vs are the most awesome things on the planet. Respect the V!

As for the facetime thing, I couldn't resist instilling fear in her by saying that I was gonna snap pics on the ipad while she did it Told her I was joking though. I wouldn't do that. Only thing I am wondering is if she is going to make me watch her face or her "flower" (maybe both?) while she does it. Don't know if it happens tonight though.

Whatever she wants to show you, it's the right thing. Just go with it and follow her.

Jen, what did you have in mind for taking it to the next level? My GF already started researching new toys and she wants me to get the Lelo IDA. I saw a video on it and still can't figure it out. It goes inside the female while the male is also inside and it vibrates and stimulates both parties. Like... I can't imagine a toy and me fitting down there without causing pain to both of us.

I really need to brush up on the new Lelos lol, I'm not familar with the Ida either. But if she wants it, get it. As to the next level, well you should take this somewhat slowly and let her enjoy the current level while it's still new and fresh and hot to her, but you always need to be one step ahead and plotting your next move for her pleasure. She sounds pretty accomplished really, so what I would do is (secretly) march back to Hustler and get a Mia. Then when the time is right - which is about the time she starts thinking that this new life with the Iris is gonna be the norm - spring the Mia on her along with your new plan ....which will be to double up on her with both vibes. Her Iris has shown what it can do, so that will be the penetration unit, and the Mia will be her clit vibe. So basically what you'll be doing here is going for g-spot orgasms and clit orgasms at the same time.

This kind of stimulation is really really intense so you have to tread very carefully. In fact, what I'd suggest is that even tho it's your plan and you can sort of be the mastermind (and you should be present right there between her legs while it's going on), let her operate both vibes. She may need to back off/step up on one or the other to some nuanced degree that you may not be able to accommodate without some training, so it's best she does it initially. You don't want her squirming and uncomfortable and over-stimulated at your hands. Then ideally when she gets down what works for her, and you learn what it is by paying close attention, you can take over.

That would be my master plan anyway. Then of course after you take her to that level, there's the next one to start planning for. Your job is never ending my friend, but you've got the greatest job in the world.

[Something_Awesome]

Jen, I've always been a little self conscious, which is why I have not told her about this forum. Also, I don't want her to know I discussed her squirt/pee issue.

Also, I have to finally say it. You're extremely perceptive and your ability to read between the lines is off the wall. I always thought this when I read your responses in a bunch of other topics (including ones I may not have a reply in), but I finally gotta say it. How the heck you got that my GF is not high maintenance is beyond me. I don't think I've said much (if anything) that might tip someone off as to whether she is high maintenance or not. She isn't high maintenance and my GF will often joke with me and say that I am lucky because a lot of Brazilian women are gold diggers. Now I'm not a millionaire, but what she's trying to say is I don't need to throw money her way to keep her (which is true). I am starting to wonder if you are a licensed therapist.

And good call on waiting for the MIA 2. I was worried about over stimulating too soon. And I have a big surplus of points right now so I will wait when I get low before I get the MIA 2.