[Motorguy]

IThis might be the first time I have to disagree with you. No guy, regardless of shape, can look good in panties. I went the gym yesterday morning and I walked into a locker room and saw a guy wearing a thong. It looked baaaaaaad. And not bad because he had a bad body, but bad because not matter how you cut it, thongs are femenine-esque under garments. Femenine attire does not look good on masculine dudes. Hercules would not look good in a mini skirt.

I think men look best in boxer briefs. If you want to seem slightly sexier, well, they have ones that are shorter cut at the leg area, so you are slightly less covered. Tanks look good for the top, or you could go bare... I personally never wear under shirts so at bed time I only wear boxer-briefs.

I am a boxer wearing guy my wife loves me in boxer. During the summer I wear only boxer to bed but during winter time i will wear a t shirt to bed with boxer. Unless we are messing up the sheets and covers then nothing lol.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Your boyfriend needs to grow up... It is in my opinion something you do because you want to for that person and you...

First meet ? No way if you were to do that , it would look wrong.

[rcoreyus]

Please smack him upside the head.. (just kidding).

Why on earth does he think you shouldn't wear something sexy any time you want, and why doesn't he appreciate it. I've been married over 25 years and I still think its fantastic when my wife is wearing something sexy when I get home.

I have lol, I got a nice lace corset with matching thong for bf and he told me not to wear it as that was something you wear for someone you just meet. I don't know what he was on about but I certainly wouldn't put it on when just meeting someone

[jen1447]

He was probably trying to say that it's something you do when trying to make a big impression - like you might do when a relationship is on the new side, not the old and tired side. Which kind of betrays where his mind is at, sigh ....any sensible guy will absolutely be in favor of a woman wearing something sexy for his benefit.

Wait - is this the masturbating guy again? If so, he probably just can't handle a real woman dressed that way because they only do that in porn as far as he knows.

[Motorguy]

Please smack him upside the head.. (just kidding).

Why on earth does he think you shouldn't wear something sexy any time you want, and why doesn't he appreciate it. I've been married over 25 years and I still think its fantastic when my wife is wearing something sexy when I get home.

I hear you i enjoy taking it off the wife like unwrapping a gift 4 to 5 times a week. Not just on my birthday or Christmas.

[rcoreyus]

Wearing lingerie, giving flowers, love notes, etc - these are all ways of showing that you are not taking your partner for granted but are still putting in an effort to attract them. I think a lot of couples would be happier if they kept up the efforts they made when they were first dating for the rest of the relationship.

[Something_Awesome]

First, you are definitions masculinity by very traditional means. Why couldn't panties be masculine. It must take a very confident man to wear them.

Second, why can't femininity in men be sexy?

Nothing wrong with femininity.. I went to my first pedi with the GF yesterday, we talk about what guys we think are hot and which are not (I think I enjoy this topic more than her)...

Regarding femininity, I meant guys don't look good in women's underwear. I never tried on women's underwear, but I'd imagine they would be uncomfortable. And I would feel de-masculated (sp?). I would much rather talk to my female co workers about "cute guys." Frankly, I can sometimes be disappointed in their taste of men.

[muffin70]

I've not read all the posts in this thread, but I love it if my wife wears sexy lingere.... a catalogue came in the mail the other day for a large department store here and there was some lingere on special... I told her I thought it looked sexy on the model in the catalogue and she agreed... hopefully I can convince her to go out amd buy it this weekend :-)

[Motorguy]

I've not read all the posts in this thread, but I love it if my wife wears sexy lingere.... a catalogue came in the mail the other day for a large department store here and there was some lingere on special... I told her I thought it looked sexy on the model in the catalogue and she agreed... hopefully I can convince her to go out amd buy it this weekend :-)

Very nice plant of a idea in the head of the wife, good job there lol.