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I don't like condoms at all for the reasons you've said and don't want to take the Pill - I hate the idea of stopping a natural process. My SO and I went to a clinic that specializes in diaphragms. I had one fitted and think they are a great alternative. The doctor who fitted me and taught me how to use it said that it was her only source of birth control for the past twenty years and had never failed her. I am also very aware of my cycle so I'm extra careful around my really fertile time.Comment
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The diaphragm sounds like a great alternative, but I'd still be too paranoid. Y'know, I do worry about the pre-cum getting her pregnant, but it worries me less than the BC methods that do not involve a condom. The other part of it is that I'd love to climax "inside" without the use of a condom. I've never experienced an internal climax that was condomless (I am 30 now) :/
Pretty sad, I know... Now my GF did use pills early in our relationship. While on the pill, she had even told me (on several occasions) to climax inside while we were having sex, but I could never do it. I've either pulled out my whole life or climaxed with a condom on. Even when I've climaxed with a condom, I never let myself finish the climax while inside her. I'd still pull out a little early due to fear of the condom bursting or falling off or even having a hole in it.
Guess it leaves me something to look forward to!"Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447Comment
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Just reading all the posts on this thread....I have never heard of cat fishing before....so is it basically someone on this forum pretending to be someone they are not?? Or is it someone lying and making up stories? Actually if you're pretending to be someone you're not you're lying anyway. Why do people bother to do this???Comment
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Yes Romy, it's someone pretending to be someone else like Patti, was doing using someone else pictures or name or gender to fool others. Thinking there someone who they are not. Many do it because they really have no life so there trying to live through these lies with others people profiles and pictures.They have a show on MTV called cat fishing if you look it up in the new urban dictionary it states this as a term now it's happens more then you think now. So it's pretty mess up and these people need some serous help who do this.Just reading all the posts on this thread....I have never heard of cat fishing before....so is it basically someone on this forum pretending to be someone they are not?? Or is it someone lying and making up stories? Actually if you're pretending to be someone you're not you're lying anyway. Why do people bother to do this???When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.Comment
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