[CaliSkater]

I was wondering if women prefer a noisier or quieter man in bed?

I typically am more quiet. Of course I breathe heavily during sex and will occasionally let out a grunt/moan/'oh yeah' but only occasionally. I always thought it was kind of weird for men to make a lot of noise during sex as that's usually seen as a feminine thing in our western culture but also it may be a more biologic thing too as I am surely not fighting back making the urge to make noise but girls seem to often have to when trying to be discreet during sex.

Regardless, I'm interested in what do women think about it:
Is it a turn off, turn on or does it not make too much difference for you either way?

[Motorguy]

I was wondering if women prefer a noisier or quieter man in bed?

I typically am more quiet. Of course I breathe heavily during sex and will occasionally let out a grunt/moan/'oh yeah' but only occasionally. I always thought it was kind of weird for men to make a lot of noise during sex as that's usually seen as a feminine thing in our western culture but also it may be a more biologic thing too as I am surely not fighting back making the urge to make noise but girls seem to often have to when trying to be discreet during sex.

Regardless, I'm interested in what do women think about it:
Is it a turn off, turn on or does it not make too much difference for you either way?

Well my wife is a screamer and loud moaner, she really gets into it. She making so much noise she not really hearing me at all. I have to laugh because she will cuss and yell and some of the words that come out is like where did that come from LOL.

[jen1447]

I'm kind of profane too lol. As for guys, I like some growling occasionally but they need to be respectful first and foremost and not take liberties with it unless I greenlight it. My women need to scream tho.

[Motorguy]

I'm kind of profane too lol. As for guys, I like some growling occasionally but they need to be respectful first and foremost and not take liberties with it unless I greenlight it. My women need to scream tho.

Oh yes if it's feeling really good why not show how good it really is by screaming out lol . I am so glad I made the bedroom sound proof don't want to wake the kids.

[Patti-here]

Not particularly, I make enough noise for the both of us

[Something_Awesome]

I am sort of self conscious about doing it, but my GF said she loves it when I do it. I will only do it during climax (though on a few oaccasions I will make no noise). She said all her prior partners sounded real bad but she loves the way I sound so she encourages it; say it excites her more. I will never force it though.

[CaliSkater]

As for guys, I like some growling occasionally but they need to be respectful first and foremost and not take liberties with it unless I greenlight it..

..excuse me? What are you some kind of Dominatrix or something? That seems overly controlling.

[Something_Awesome]

..excuse me? What are you some kind of Dominatrix or something? That seems overly controlling.

Some guys like it when the girl is dominant in bed. I was always 50/50 on it, but my GF (who likes to be dominant most of the time) really got me into it. I especially like my hair being pulled... like super hard. Though sometimes that is a challenege to do depending on the haircut I go with.

Edit: with Jen, I think she means that the grunting can be a turnoff... So if she doesn't "greenlight" it, that means it could get in the way of getting orgasms (because it sounds bad)... And she is not sacrificing her orgasm for anyone.

[jen1447]

I'm not a dominatrix lol, but I am dominant. What I don't like with guy-noise is if it comes from them feeling like they're running the show, because they're not. I remember one time years ago I was having sex with a guy and he was vocalizing like "oh yeah, check me out - RAAAA!" I actually stopped him and asked what he was doing ....sent him home with a case of blue balls a bit later.

Something, your GF pulls your hair? That's hot.

[Something_Awesome]

I'm not a dominatrix lol, but I am dominant. What I don't like with guy-noise is if it comes from them feeling like they're running the show, because they're not. I remember one time years ago I was having sex with a guy and he was vocalizing like "oh yeah, check me out - RAAAA!" I actually stopped him and asked what he was doing ....sent him home with a case of blue balls a bit later.

Something, your GF pulls your hair? That's hot.

OMG that is so embarrassing for the guy! I even felt embarrassed reading it. If I made those noises and my GF did that to me I would wanna jump off a bridge.

And I'd find it hard to believe that you don't pull your BF's hair (unless he's bald or buzzes his hair).