[rcoreyus]

Thank God I'm not alone. I struggle with this daily. My story in a nutshell:


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The worst part - I don't even know how to talk to her anymore - I am almost completely shut down emotionally...

Any ladies with experience in this? I would LOVE some help - you could be saving my marriage.

PS - Now that she will be turning 30 next month, she is talking about getting pregnant in 2008 (we don't have kids)...I have made the joke that she must plan on being the next Virgin Mary...but seriously - we hadn't had sex in 3 months and she was telling people she wants to have a baby!!! Is it me, or is that CRAZY?

You could be me. The last part is scary, because my wife and I went through this some years ago. She wanted a baby, and tried to time things so that we would only need to have sex once a month. When she didn't get pregnant after a while, I suggested that maybe we should try more often - she acted like I was trying to scam her somehow.

She quickly decided she was infertile, and went to doctors for artificial means - and we rarely had sex again. That didn't work either, and there was the fiasco of the foster kids / adoption - but that is a different story.



I am sorry for your problems. I believe you are doing everything you possibly can - not your fault. Don't know what to suggest.