[Little]

If you've paid attention to the newest posts lately, there's been a lot of attention paid to the kinkier side of sex. And that's great! But I had an epiphany just recently about my preferences for sex, and I'd like to hear some other people's preferences.
I like vanilla sex. The kinkiest things I guess my boyfriend and I do are doggy and oral. We tried anal about twice, and while I was lucky to not find it painful, it's not what we like to do best. Our vanilla sex is hot. I feel like I turn myself completely over to primal urges ... I get reprimanded for clawing him, so my bedspread takes the abuse instead. But I can't help it! We've just got that connection.
In my early days of sexual exploration, I thought I would be a real freak. I liked the idea of whips and chains, of getting tied up or tied down. I liked giving pleasure rather than receiving it. But now that I've been basically run over by love, the things I like best are those that bring pleasure to us both at the same time. (Not 69, though. Too tricky.)
So what I want to know is, which kind of sex do you prefer? And why do you think it's what you prefer?

[Fallen1]

Before I can answer can you give me a definition of vanilla sex? Sorry, not familiar with that term.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Vanilla sex is basically ordinary sex... Missionary... Lights out... Likely no toys...


I'd say I fall somewhere between the two, I think each aspect has it's time and place. My partner is quite serious about her kink, and I enjoy it too... As for analyzing why I like bondage and stuff... I'd rather not lol

Although, I think I know why my partner does. Christian upbringing coupled with a tyranical mother is a good recipe for a bondage loving girl. Basically, they've been instilled with so much moral stigma regarding sex that bondage offers them a way to bypass the morally instilled guilt of the act, and simply enjoy it.

[C]

Vanilla sex is basically ordinary sex... Missionary... Lights out... Likely no toys...


I'd say I fall somewhere between the two, I think each aspect has it's time and place. My partner is quite serious about her kink, and I enjoy it too... As for analyzing why I like bondage and stuff... I'd rather not lol

Although, I think I know why my partner does. Christian upbringing coupled with a tyranical mother is a good recipe for a bondage loving girl. Basically, they've been instilled with so much moral stigma regarding sex that bondage offers them a way to bypass the morally instilled guilt of the act, and simply enjoy it.

Who are you trying to fool. We are Vanilla. Probably as Vanilla as you can get. Oh, we put a twist of marshmallow on it but we groove. Put it this way, kinkie can be anal but some couples love it, deep bondage (have been tied up and I love it only we used scarves. Had those wedge pillows, had two of them and fell off of one and ended up screwing our brains out on the floor. Finally had to get rid of them as he was too high for penetration. Love 69 but sometimes it is hard keeping your concentration and that is only in deep animal heat.. I bit him once so I have to be careful there. Love Tahitian Oral and when I Ride His Tongue.....That is hot....We do doggy all the time, have sex all over the house. Love being penetrated with my legs wide open while in the missionary position, love being taken with my legs over his shoulders and adore it when my legs are high in the air with my toes pointing and he comes in from the bottom sideways while he is playing with my clit. Honey, I am pretty darn vanilla for my age and this is the hottest sex that two people can have. BUT we are in love. That is the secret of hot sex.

Now this vanilla me likes some Porn. My husband has seen much of it but I like it. Not all the time but I am game. But I find this is one hot sexual turn on and it is just a matter of hours before I jump him. This is the honest truth. Sometimes in the middle of the night if the idea is there.

I am not into S&M, deep anal and really not sex toys. I am not into poop sex, peeing on me, blood or animals. I use my Eric the Eroscillator to take me to heaven if I have the need. Nothing like going to your own place in time and deep into pleasure. BUT my husband is my pleasure. We don't need toys.

Now this is vanilla and who I am....

Oh and never lights out and I adore the sunlight.....

and I will add that I probably will edit this later as this is my problem writing on this slate of paper and not thinking about it first. But I was PO at what you said vanilla was....

[Fallen1]

I would have to say that vanilla is a fairly good description of where I am. Don't get me wrong though I'm not the lights off missionary only type. I am experimental to a point but within reason. As for toys, the few times they have been in the mix they have never added anything to the experience, at least not for me. Guess this might sound kind of dull to most but I love my guy and just being with him is very exciting to me.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Who are you trying to fool.

Do you have a reason to be questioning me or what I say? Do you somehow know something I don't? Didn't think so.

[C]

Do you have a reason to be questioning me or what I say? Do you somehow know something I don't? Didn't think so.

I question everything you say. You are a child. Wet behind the ears and yet try to preach to the masses. You cannot even understand that a woman cannot respond to you sexually with passion unless she is in love with you. You think you are the perfect male and you don't have a hint of what passion and true love is.

First lesson for you is this. There are two ways to f**k. One way is for love with deep passion and loving the other so deeply and with such hunger and passion that you release each and every part of your sexual being to them. You orgasm over and over and let them see your soul as you give all of yourself as a woman and allow the inner you to go that place in time of long ago. That time when you walked with the animals and mated with the hunger of years gone by.........Then young man, there are f**k buddies. That is where you are and you just can't expect anymore than this from a woman that does not truly care for you but uses you as you are using her.

Do I know something that you do not know??????Honey, you have not yet begun to know just a hint of what I know......not a hint.....and I will not answer you anymore....I have things to do.....

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Oh my, you're being very antagonistic. You know nothing about me. And evidently in forming your hasty opinion you didn't even read what your judging me for.

If I'm a child.... In fact I'm not even going to respond to his, try to do some reading and understand things before you go on rampages against people.

[C]

Oh my, you're being very antagonistic. You know nothing about me. And evidently in forming your hasty opinion you didn't even read what your judging me for.

If I'm a child.... In fact I'm not even going to respond to his, try to do some reading and understand things before you go on rampages against people.

I know your age......I read it long ago even before you posted it......It was written in your words.......I stand by what I said.......You have not yet begun.........

[anonymouswhitefemale]

I thought you had things to do?

If you want to insult me, don't bother. You have your opinions, I have mine.

I'm 22. If that's a child to you, great, so's everyone else here most likely.