[kira]

It's a good idea to urinate before you masturbate or have sex. It helps you not be worried about urinating and it helps flush the urinary tract so infections are less likely.

[Patti-here]

You know I've actually had some people tell me not to urinate before sex, that it makes the orgasm more intense,, Ya can't tell by me, I never took that chance before...

[Patti-here]

sorry I was posting in the wrong thread..

[bootsie]

Hi there hon. We'll have to tread lightly a bit here due to your age but we can still straighten a few things out.

First of all there's nothing wrong with you. What's happening is indeed female ejaculation or "squirting," and lots of women do it. It can happen during orgasms or before or after them. You can have a lot of liquid or just a little liquid come out, just like you say. You're perfectly normal.

This doesn't have to affect your relationships negatively at all, again because you are totally normal. You'll just have to make a few adjustments is all, and you should actually start that now when you continue to experiment with masturbation. Main thing is really simple - just get a decent sized and weight towel or two and put them underneath where you'll have the liquid come out. No problem with messes. Any sexual partners you have should probably be told that you do that too, just so everybody's prepared.

On the masturbation question, what you need to do is not hold back when you start squirting or feeling the squirting sensation. That's probably what's leaving you dissatisfied - you're not having a proper orgasm for fear that you're doing something wrong or that something bad is happening. It isn't and you're not. Just keep going when you feel that way and squirt, let the towel do it's job, and see what happens when you just let go. I'm betting that you'll be amazed when you really have a nice big uninhibited orgasm.

Orgasms are a really intense for women (or they can be), so don't worry about being tense and wired either. That will go away after you climax in a satisfying way. Lastly, don't feel embarrassed! Be proud, you are a young woman with a healthy sexuality who is able to do something that not all women can and many wish they could. Always take pride in your sexuality and the unique characteristics that make you who you are.

If you have any more questions or doubts, we're always here to help!

Jen,
You mind me asking if this is something that you have experienced or still do?

[jen1447]

What specifically?

[bootsie]

What specifically?

Do you or Have you ever squirted before during orgasms?

[jen1447]

Yes, but there's lots of other squirting threads out there where this is discussed in the 'fun' context, if that's what you're getting at.

[bootsie]

Yes, but there's lots of other squirting threads out there where this is discussed in the 'fun' context, if that's what you're getting at.

Ok,Discussed on this board you are talking about? Thanks for answering.