[ariel]

oh thats nice.. probably different men have different thinking ya.. Does she compare u with her past bf? i can't help but do that sometimes.. i'm soooo bad.. =(

[metboogie]

No, not ever...that's a bad thing to do to anyone, man or woman. We are all built on self esteem, pride and ego - being compared to a past lover (unless it's to say that we are WAY better than him) is just not a pleasing thought...it makes us doubt everything we are doing.

I still say your BF needs to see a doctor about his soft penis.

[ariel]

yikes!! yea i knew it.. well i've apologised.. anyway.. thanks a million =p

[DrJ]

The quality and duration of an erection can be effected by such things as diabetes, hypertension, use of condoms to dull sensation, use of nonoxinol-9 as it functions as a local anesthetic, blood dyscrasias such as sickle cell anemia, leukemias, nerve dissorders such as multiple sclerosis, seisure dissorders(petit mal), congenital dissorders of the penile circulation or innervation,peyrones with aquired disease of the corpus cavernosa, previous penile fracture, and many others. Have him see a urologist. If no physical problem can be identified, depression and psyciatric dissorders should be sought/treated. At 22 yrs old, erectile dysfunction is most likely phsical rather than psychological.