[miss_maid]

i feel you

I have a huge problem and that is that I want sex all the time, and when I do have it and my significant other has an orgasm, all I want him to do is relax a minute and get it together and keep it going. I like to have sex at least 5 times a day. In a "session" at least twice or 3 times. My b/f says that I must take pills or something and that I will eventually kill him. I work him to the point where he is so sore he just can't continure. I can't get enough of him and I want him to be able to keep up with me. I don't know how to relax and be a little less sexual because I am afraid to scare him away. I have always been this way and I have had several affairs with married men just because the sex is so good and because I like the fact that the man can't get enough of me. As of now I am in a relationship but I just want it all the time and when I am not doing it I am thinking of it. He thinks I have an illness. I don't know.

ok female here i feel for you, im 18 as some of you know and i can't help myself either and i have read this whole sex drive at its peak at 25-30 but i have to say im pretty bad as i am now, my lover can't keep up he just crashes thought i never get much out of it still and yes i plan on going to the doctor about it, so i have to say clothes, if i want it i usually just take it{ my bf love video games} so when he's not giving me what i need i usually going up and start to tease him until he get the point but tried just walking aroung in some sexy underwear why not i mean its not new to you guys? and your husband sound very sweet so i hope it works out.

[NightDragon_81]

On the topic of sexy clothes ...
There was a survey done recently (I saw it on AOL news) about what kind of women's lingerie men liked the most.
The most popular pieces were mismatched, reasonably conservative cotton sets. The garters and stockings with black lace pieces were the least popular.
So maybe it would be best to just go to Wal-mart and buy something you think is cute. You're happy, and he'll probably like it better.

That makes sense, good idea! I always wondered why the cost was so high for clothing you only keep on for a moment...

[rcoreyus]

On the topic of sexy clothes ...
There was a survey done recently (I saw it on AOL news) about what kind of women's lingerie men liked the most.
The most popular pieces were mismatched, reasonably conservative cotton sets. The garters and stockings with black lace pieces were the least popular.
So maybe it would be best to just go to Wal-mart and buy something you think is cute. You're happy, and he'll probably like it better.

(from a guy).
Sexiest thing you can wear is a smile.

Otherwise, special lace stuff doesn't matter, it is the idea the matters. A long t-shirt and nothing else is as sexy (to me) as anything with lots of lace and straps.

[C]

I think there is nothing sexier and can raise a flag faster than coming out of the master bathroom in a short nightie. String straps and rose glow around the nipples....Lights always on or wooden blinds open during the day.. Stand back far enough from the bed and drop one strap at a time as you let it fall to the floor.....Just let him lay and gaze at you and go and get him....After than anything and everything goes.....

[NightDragon_81]

Wow, I had no idea. I seriously thought I was going to have to do and outlay like a ton of cash on garters and such things. Hmmm. Lots of times I walk around in a tshirt and thats it and it doesn't seem to get me much. I have the cotton sets, in fact I could open a warehouse! (Cold climate.) The cotton set thing doesn't seem to get me anywhere much.

[DrJ]

90% of sex is mental. The other 10% is the physical act. Talk sexy and dirty to him. Tell him exactly what, how, and where you want him to pleasure you. Tease him. Taunt him. Tell him stories of the grocery boy flirting with you. The cop at 34th and vine. You must convince him that you are hot and desireable. You are his *****. Super sexy and all his if he wants...but others are interested.....

[C]

90% of sex is mental. The other 10% is the physical act. Talk sexy and dirty to him. Tell him exactly what, how, and where you want him to pleasure you. Tease him. Taunt him. Tell him stories of the grocery boy flirting with you. The cop at 34th and vine. You must convince him that you are hot and desireable. You are his *****. Super sexy and all his if he wants...but others are interested.....

So you have been reading my posts....Pretty good but you have got to learn to do it and have it in you to start. You can't just throw any number out and expect someone to jump......You are saying everything that I have been saying.......

[NightDragon_81]

90% of sex is mental. The other 10% is the physical act. Talk sexy and dirty to him. Tell him exactly what, how, and where you want him to pleasure you. Tease him. Taunt him. Tell him stories of the grocery boy flirting with you. The cop at 34th and vine. You must convince him that you are hot and desireable. You are his *****. Super sexy and all his if he wants...but others are interested.....

What if things like that dont work either? Oh and Happy New Years to everyone on the site!! All the best in 2008!!

[rcoreyus]

Wow, I had no idea. I seriously thought I was going to have to do and outlay like a ton of cash on garters and such things. Hmmm. Lots of times I walk around in a tshirt and thats it and it doesn't seem to get me much. I have the cotton sets, in fact I could open a warehouse! (Cold climate.) The cotton set thing doesn't seem to get me anywhere much.

Well people like different things. I guess I like the t-shirt because I like spontaneity, makes it seem unplanned. I'm sure some people do like lace, or leather, or whatever. Any way, can you ask, or otherwise find out what he likes? You could run through a lot of $, not to mention frustration trying different things. Pink and lacy is really different from black leather - some people like one, some the other. I don't particularly like either, but I don't know how unusual I am - not the sort of thing men discuss.

[NightDragon_81]

Yeah I guess not something men would discuss hey? SSome good ideas though