[Something_Awesome]

Sweet... Jen is asking me for advice

You can do it a few times, but I would not chain more than three together (if you chain them, I would treat one chain as one whack). When I say chain, I do not mean in really rapid succession. The pain (for lack of a better word) from the "whack" moves to other parts of the body, but it does so pretty slowly. I can't tell you how far apart the whacks should be in terms of seconds, but there is definitely an appreciable amount of time.

Don't over-think it though. You have great instincts, you will be fine. The first time my GF did it, she whacked me three times, with some pause between each whack, and it was great. The first one will catch your guy off guard, the second one will confuse him ("did I just like that?"), and the third will hopefully answer the question in the affirmative!

If he ends up not liking it, it will have more to do with him not liking the act in general as opposed to you doing it wrong.

Also very important. I like it when she does this in the 69 position because it gives me something to latch on to when she whacks my balls (helps to cope with the pain). Even though I have no problem lifting my GF up off of me, it does make escape a bit harder and just adds some resistance to any involuntary flinching. This is important because even if I want her to stop, she can still whack them. If I say "ow" or "stop," it is not done so as a roleplay like I am beggingmfor mercy. It is usually said involuntarily. She will continue to whack, and to be honest, I am glad she does. It is one of those rare instances where "no" means "yes."

What brought about the discovery of liking this behavior is our use of the 69 position. I do like giving her oral in that position; however, as you know, I really hate BJs. She knows this so she just uses her hands to caress me or uses them on my "stuff" and, eventually, it all lead up to whacking.

[jen1447]

Thanks! And yeah, I'm always looking to perfect my sexuality, so input is always welcome.

50 whacks in rapid succession, no matter what he says ....got it.

[CapeCRunner]

Just because she may not be vocal, it doesn't mean she's not into it. I know what you mean though about it being some kind of indicator. I'm not overly loud, I don't think, but I would consider myself a moaner rather than a talker. Every now and then we'll throw in a little chatter, but I like kind of naturally hearing/feeling him get into it.

Touch for me sometimes is better because his hand tightens up around my hip or he might pull my hair a little. When I go down on him sometimes I don't even know he's about to come until he does and then he obviously starts to get more animated (for lack of better words) haha. Depends on the mood/situation though.

[jen1447]

Well the testicle abuse didn't work out as planned. I instinctively wanted to do a test run before the real festivities started, so when BF and I first got close I grabbed his sack (rather forcefully) and squeezed them while asking who they belonged to, etc. He was very cooperative but I could see it actually hurt him a little bit, so I didn't want to start beating them after that lol. He was actually kind of out of it as a result so I let him go down on me for a while and that was it.

Ball pain is mystifying to me lol. I take it from your descriptions Something that it's a sort of unconventional pain? All over, comes and goes? I think he was suffering but would have liked more in a contradictory but strangely compelling way, but I was concerned for his safety so I called it off. (He was okay this morning btw.)

I'll probably try it again later but I'll have to dial down the force. (Not my style ....usually when I see warning signs my sexual instincts say to pursue it anyway, which works in most cases but I guess not when it comes to balls. They're so delicate lol.)

[Something_Awesome]

Sorry Jen, I do not have a good response to provide for the not so positive experience. I like it when she grabs, slaps, and pulls them. It is a bit uncomfortable, but it's still a great sensation. There is a psychological component that goes along with it (if your the receiver) that probably makes the discomfort more tolerable. I think what happens is that the guy's excitement of feeling helpless to the whacking trumps the discomfort. Now it is possible to take the pain to a point beyond the excitement being felt, so you may need to find a balance?

Now when she "whacks" them, she isn't throwing haymakers or using a close fist. I think a slap is a more appropriate term. And she doesn't do it with all her strength. Also, the slapping usually happens in the direction of my crouch. The balls are not usually slapped from the side if that makes sense.

Think of whacking like a hostage situation. "You try any funny business and the hostage gets it!" In the whacking context it's "you try any funny business and your balls get ripped off."

[jen1447]

Thanks. Yeah, I think I just need to pull back a bit. I do think he liked the idea, altho it was a squeeze that got him, not a slap. We'll try again. (I don't usually "go easy" on people, but balls may have to be the exception. I didn't exactly crush his either but ....)

[Motorguy]

I like dirty/nasty talk but it has to be 'real.' (I once had a girl say "Eff me rawless!" and had to stop and ask her what that meant. She didn't really know. Bit of a head scratcher because it sounded unnatural coming from her. ) Personally I'm less a moaner than a ....sigher? More likely to go "Mmmmmmm ...." than "AHHHHHHH!!!!"

Well you know Jenn, when you in that deep organismic moment some words will come out that you do scratch your head and think where in the hell that come from lol. I done it and the wife has too as well. After while we still don't know why we said those certain words lol. All I know it's pretty funny after we are done.

[Motorguy]

Well the testicle abuse didn't work out as planned. I instinctively wanted to do a test run before the real festivities started, so when BF and I first got close I grabbed his sack (rather forcefully) and squeezed them while asking who they belonged to, etc. He was very cooperative but I could see it actually hurt him a little bit, so I didn't want to start beating them after that lol. He was actually kind of out of it as a result so I let him go down on me for a while and that was it.

Ball pain is mystifying to me lol. I take it from your descriptions Something that it's a sort of unconventional pain? All over, comes and goes? I think he was suffering but would have liked more in a contradictory but strangely compelling way, but I was concerned for his safety so I called it off. (He was okay this morning btw.)

I'll probably try it again later but I'll have to dial down the force. (Not my style ....usually when I see warning signs my sexual instincts say to pursue it anyway, which works in most cases but I guess not when it comes to balls. They're so delicate lol.)

Well abusing the testicle can lead to becoming sterile. So you have to be careful how much rough play you do with them. I had a good friend who's girl friend used to twisted his testicle sack well the blood supplied was stop and in the end results he lost his testicles and the chances of having kids. So people who are into this type of sexually play just be careful with the pain or twisting because they are very delicate eggs I call them lol.

[Motorguy]

Well the testicle abuse didn't work out as planned. I instinctively wanted to do a test run before the real festivities started, so when BF and I first got close I grabbed his sack (rather forcefully) and squeezed them while asking who they belonged to, etc. He was very cooperative but I could see it actually hurt him a little bit, so I didn't want to start beating them after that lol. He was actually kind of out of it as a result so I let him go down on me for a while and that was it.

Ball pain is mystifying to me lol. I take it from your descriptions Something that it's a sort of unconventional pain? All over, comes and goes? I think he was suffering but would have liked more in a contradictory but strangely compelling way, but I was concerned for his safety so I called it off. (He was okay this morning btw.)

I'll probably try it again later but I'll have to dial down the force. (Not my style ....usually when I see warning signs my sexual instincts say to pursue it anyway, which works in most cases but I guess not when it comes to balls. They're so delicate lol.)

Just let me say, remind me not to ever **** you off Jenn ever can i say OUCH!!!!! WTF

[jen1447]

Well I broke your surprise advice tonight Something and had a sit down with the BF about this (we never even discussed it verbally last night ....we seem to communicate non-verbally a lot, we both knew what was going on and what the other was thinking), and he's all for taking a few hits for the team so to speak lol. We'll see how it goes. I guess I can still surprise him by not letting on when I'm gonna strike.

Oh btw MG - multi-quote. Multi-quote is your friend. Become friends with multi-quote, he's very friendly.