[Romy]

How common is it for some.....how do I put this.....mess to come out onto your partner after he pulls out after anal sex?

[Patti-here]

How common is it for some.....how do I put this.....mess to come out onto your partner after he pulls out after anal sex?

I can only speak for myself, but in my case, it's never happened, I always give myself an enema with warm soapy water, so I'm sure I'm clean enough.

[Romy]

I can only speak for myself, but in my case, it's never happened, I always give myself an enema with warm soapy water, so I'm sure I'm clean enough.

But what if you didn't plan to have anal sex so weren't prepared....can you expect any mess then??

[Patti-here]

But what if you didn't plan to have anal sex so weren't prepared....can you expect any mess then??

Well first you should never have anal sex if you feel like you need to use the bath room, also poop is stored in the Colon not the rectum, so you should be pretty safe..

[Romy]

Thanks Patti

[Patti-here]

Sure Romy, enjoy

[bootsie]

How common is it for some.....how do I put this.....mess to come out onto your partner after he pulls out after anal sex?

Romy,I have had anal sex with 2 of the women I have been involved with sexually,because they wanted to do it and has been doing it for quite awhile now.Everytime I pull out,I have never had anything on me but the lube that I have on and cum when I cum inside both of them.It's never has been a mess with us.Now the BIG!!! key thing if this is your first time doing it,Is LOTS!!! of lube,having him to go slow,and relaxing on your part,because if none of these don't happen.It might hurt some as he is going inside of you,espeical if he is big,because I am well endowed the reason it took sometime for us to do it.
Good luck and enjoy.Hope everything work out.

[Patti-here]

Anilingus (sp) should always precede anal sex, It will have the anus muscles relax and open naturally, and of course, lube, lube, lube.

[Romy]

Romy,I have had anal sex with 2 of the women I have been involved with sexually,because they wanted to do it and has been doing it for quite awhile now.Everytime I pull out,I have never had anything on me but the lube that I have on and cum when I cum inside both of them.It's never has been a mess with us.Now the BIG!!! key thing if this is your first time doing it,Is LOTS!!! of lube,having him to go slow,and relaxing on your part,because if none of these don't happen.It might hurt some as he is going inside of you,espeical if he is big,because I am well endowed the reason it took sometime for us to do it.
Good luck and enjoy.Hope everything work out.

Thanks Bootsie. This will be my first time. I've worked myself up to it after several unsuccessful attempts through no fault of my partner and one bad experience when I was young. I've found that if I cum first I'm a lot more relaxed and I have been able to insert a regular vibrator (Lelo Elise 2) deep into me without any pain on a regular basis recently so I'm ready to try the real thing. I have a very understanding loving partner who will make sure I'm the one in control and will go very slow. I'm really excited to feel my man cum in my *** for the first time ever

[Patti-here]

Just remember hon.. If this is your first time.

your natural instinct is to clinch up when something is penetrating your butthole,, last thing you want,, you need to be relaxed open and receptive and lubed, clear your mind and just enjoy it,