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Suppositories
I use a glycerin suppository about an hour before having anal sex. They are little glycerin pellets you stick into your butt. In about 5 minutes, you have the urge to poop, if there's anything up there. This ensures that I'm completely empty up there and helps me relax more so I can really enjoy myself. They're easy to travel with and less messy than an enema, which is just overkill as far as I'm concerned. There are some days that I just can't get it all cleaned out....bad eating habits,etc....and I just have to say "not tonite,dear." Eat lots of fiber and keep yourself healthy!Comment
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Jen,You are right on that,because if me and the woman I am having sex with and she tells me that she wants me to put it in her bum.Then once I have pulled out of her jay and put it in her bum,I don't go back to her jay after being in her bum.If I am in her bum at that time,I will finish in her bum which she always want me to do.Now if we are going to do any whiching back and forward,I will use a condom before I put it in her bum,then pull the condom off before I put it back in her jay.My suggestion is just do whatever she needs and is comfortable with personally. It's good you've got the accommodating mentality.
btw Romy, on the condoms question I assume you're already in the know about this but it bears repeating - no mixing it up between your bum and your vajay. Safest method is to use a separate condom for each (assuming you'll go to both at some point), but you should at least use a condom for the bum, unless you're really certain your jay will be sitting this one out. If you want to go naked with both, you have to be exceptionally, pristinely clean, and even then it's really not a good idea. Kind of just an unnecessary risk. (Jay and bum have a 'nature's balance' that don't really agree with each other.)
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Romy,Jen is right on that,because if me and the woman I am having sex with and she tells me that she wants me to put it in her bum.Then once I have pulled out of her jay and put it in her bum,I don't go back to her jay after being in her bum.If I am in her bum at that time,I will finish in her bum which she always want me to do.Now if we are going to do any whiching back and forward,I will use a condom before I put it in her bum,then pull the condom off before I put it back in her jay.Comment
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