[Motorguy]

Jen, when you are having sex with your BF, is your enjoyment (at least part of it) coming from you feeling dominant or him being submissive? I know they sort of go hand-in-hand, but what do you like more?

I guess an analogy would be if you eat an Oreo cookie (wish I could come up with a healthier example since these things are like poison), do you enjoy the chocolate cookie more or the icing in the middle? The outer cookie and the icing in the middle both go together, and an Oreo would not be an Oreo without both, but what is it that you enjoy most? Your dominance, or his submission? I have a feeling my GF's answer will differ from yours.

For me it's the icing SA very yummy gobbling those off my wife nice cute cookie as well.

[Something_Awesome]

Jen, when you are having sex with your BF, is your enjoyment (at least part of it) coming from you feeling dominant or him being submissive? I know they sort of go hand-in-hand, but what do you like more?

I guess an analogy would be if you eat an Oreo cookie (wish I could come up with a healthier example since these things are like poison), do you enjoy the chocolate cookie more or the icing in the middle? The outer cookie and the icing in the middle both go together, and an Oreo would not be an Oreo without both, but what is it that you enjoy most? Your dominance, or his submission? I have a feeling my GF's answer will differ from yours.

[Motorguy]

Now Jenn you saying punch in the ball, we talking like full all punch or a good slap to the balls. I am just can't believe this topic can last this long about abusing men's balls wow interesting.

[jen1447]

Wow Jen! I get what you mean about the punch now. Dang... I can't believe you punched them. Did you feel mean when you saw his reaction to the punch? My GF would feel heartbroken if I told her I was still feeling the hits from the night before. So I didn't tell her In all seriousness, if I told her, she would probably do anything I asked her to do to make up for it.

I didn't feel mean, no ....maybe a little callous. Mainly just very top-of-the-foodchain.

Also, did your BF make a sound when you punched them? I'll sometimes do a short but sharp inhale when my balls are hit or squeezed too hard.

Yeah he kinda grunted like you would if you ....got punched in the balls lol. "Ah!" or "Uh!" with gritted teeth type thing.

btw, if you drop this to GF, you might not want to use quite the force I did. I pretty much just straight up punched him in the balls. Not quite the force I'd use if I really wanted to hurt someone but no gentle play lovetap either.

I asked BF how he felt about it again today and he just smiled and shook his head.

[Motorguy]

You wild people get off of abusing the testicle wow way to much for me. Spank me to no end but leave the plain of abusing my testicle alone lol.

[Something_Awesome]

Wow Jen! I get what you mean about the punch now. Dang... I can't believe you punched them. Did you feel mean when you saw his reaction to the punch? My GF would feel heartbroken if I told her I was still feeling the hits from the night before. So I didn't tell her In all seriousness, if I told her, she would probably do anything I asked her to do to make up for it.

Also, did your BF make a sound when you punched them? I'll sometimes do a short but sharp inhale when my balls are hit or squeezed too hard.

As for telling my GF about this, well, I plan to copy-paste it into an email. I will edit a couple things though first lol. Like editing out my user name and one or two other things. I'll just say it's a story about one couple's experience with abusing balls

[jen1447]

Holy ****** Jen, that is awesome! This is my favorite post on WH hands down!

The 69 position is how we descovered balls-slapping. I don't like BJ's, so the GF had to find something else to do

The challenge stuff you were doing is magnificent! Love the idea of no hands as well.

And omfg seriously? You punched his balls? With a closed fist? What do you mean by it was coming outward? Please say more about the punch and how the punch made you feel? Also, if your BF has reflected on the experience please explain how he felt about the experience. That he kept eating you out means he enjoyed it!

All the guys that are saying "no" to this type of behavior just don't know. If your SO does it without your anticipation, you'd feel different.

I have more to say but I need to let this all sink in.

You are a BEAST Jen

lol, glad you liked it Sum. Now if only you can find a way to get SAGF to have this idea herself.

Yeah I did indeed punch his balls with a closed fist. My thinking was this - the first go with the failed squeeze and the second go with the failed slaps I wasn't following my instincts (instead I was over-thinking it), so at the end of this session I just went with my gut, and my gut usually tells me "go" when something seems unreasonable. So ....slaps again? Nope. (I have nothing against slaps btw, I just had to make this my own. Now I've got it. )

So anyway I mean that the punch was not typical like a from-the-shoulder-out strike. I was still 69ing him, so I had to punch inward. Think of yourself sitting in a chair and making a fist and swinging down at your balls more or less - that was what is was like tho at a somewhat different angle, more like from below than above, which was good because I hit his balls at the bottom like you said somewhere before.

I'll think more about the feelings lol ....I don't usually try to analyze them too much. It felt hot and powerful - those things were mine to bash, but then again they always have been. He was still feeling it today btw so it was um ....significant lol. He wasn't complaining tho.

I obviously won't be able to do this all the time but it's certainly not the last time he's gonna get busted.

[Motorguy]

Holy **************** Jen, that is awesome! This is my favorite post on WH hands down!

The 69 position is how we descovered balls-slapping. I don't like BJ's, so the GF had to find something else to do

The challenge stuff you were doing is magnificent! Love the idea of no hands as well.

And omfg seriously? You punched his balls? With a closed fist? What do you mean by it was coming outward? Please say more about the punch and how the punch made you feel? Also, if your BF has reflected on the experience please explain how he felt about the experience. That he kept eating you out means he enjoyed it!

All the guys that are saying "no" to this type of behavior just don't know. If your SO does it without your anticipation, you'd feel different.

I have more to say but I need to let this all sink in.

You are a BEAST Jen

Can you say don't **** off Jen or keep your testicle cover up if you do lol.

[Motorguy]

Okay so this seems to come up frequently in other threads so I thought we'd just make a thread dedicated to it. The driving force behind it (ha - no pun inteded) is usually Something Awesome's GF - she likes to slap or whack his balls during sex. They both get off on it. She's said she likes the feeling of degrading him by doing it (and I strongly suspect she likes the power and sense of ownership that goes along with it), and in large part SumSum likes to be mistreated by her, even to the point of being hit in his balls resulting in pain and discomfort.

Like most sexual things, if I hear of something I haven't tried I want to experiment with it right away, so I tried squeezing my BF's balls the other day but I squeezed too hard and it took him out of the game early. Then a few days later after he recovered completely I tried slapping them, but this time I went too easy on them and it had little effect. (These really were gentle strikes I realize now - guess I was a little gunshy.) So I realized I had to actually own this and not go from a playbook (SumSum actually suggested that from the get-go, more or less), so I came up with a plan that suited me best, at least as an intro to the whole thing - I'd squeeze them for an extended period of time. I then worked in some rules, such as no hands allowed on his part, taunting on my part, challenges to do or not do whatever thing seemed least likely for him to pull off, begging, rewards, punishment, etc.

What I ended up doing last night was this, and it worked out amazingly well ....I got BF in a 69 position with him on his back underneath me, his package in front of me and at my disposal, and my stuff in his face. I was on top with my body weight resting on him so there was also the sensation of me 'queening' him in a way, tho I wasn't sitting on his face, but he felt under pressure and at a disadvantage physically, and submissive. I took hold of his balls by holding his penis out of the way with one hand and grasping the balls from underneath. (He has good sized balls - not as big as mine lol - but I can still cup them both in my hand comfortably and squeeze. So I did this and squeezed lightly but enough to hurt (he squirmed a little), then challenged him not to eat anything I had in his face, and threatened that if he did, he'd get squeezed tighter. He can't stop himself from eating me up under basically any circumstances, so this was a losing battle on his part from the get-go, but it was made more erotic by the fact that he was causing himself more and more pain by servicing me, because each time I challenged him not to eat and he failed, I would indeed squeeze a little tighter. In fact I never actually stopped squeezing during the whole time this played out, so by the end he was in pretty serious discomfort, truth be told. It was great because he was causing it himself and was powerless to stop himself, which just made it more 'wrong,' and increasingly so as the pressure increased and he lost more and more control. I also didn't allow him to touch me with his hands while this was going on (he loves to caress my thighs and skin wherever he can get his hands on it normally), so that added to the feeling of powerlessness. The penalty for touching me was that we'd quit, so he knows what's best for him and didn't want that at all so no hands it was.

The final challenge was that if he couldn't stop himself from cumming, I'd punch his balls. He failed that too and ended up cumming with no penis stimulation whatsoever, at which point I did indeed punch him in his balls pretty hard, tho it was coming outward in which is not a very strong hit (but it doesn't need to be strong lol). He actually did get 'hurt' by that and folded up like he'd really taken a pretty good shot, but it worked great because it was at or after the culmination and he was free to go nurse his balls without needing them for anymore performance at that point.

To finish it off I made him clean up the cum he got on me when he shot off (missed me partly but did catch my cheek and hair with a couple pulses) - Romy style I'm talking about here - and then I sent him on his way. It was in a word amazing.

He owes me big time now because we don't often focus on his pleasure like that (but what the heck, he's been good), so he's got some serious time to put in on the next few occasions in whatever way I decide.

Anyway, just thought I'd share! I love this stuff lol.

No thank you on this whole a lot of fun you had not. I for one will sure pass on this type of abuse like that that being done to my testicle but again that's probably why i have 4 kids lol. I am sure glad someone enjoy it all. Myself the only thing I can say is WTF OUCH!!!!!!

[Something_Awesome]

Holy ******** Jen, that is awesome! This is my favorite post on WH hands down!

The 69 position is how we descovered balls-slapping. I don't like BJ's, so the GF had to find something else to do

The challenge stuff you were doing is magnificent! Love the idea of no hands as well.

And omfg seriously? You punched his balls? With a closed fist? What do you mean by it was coming outward? Please say more about the punch and how the punch made you feel? Also, if your BF has reflected on the experience please explain how he felt about the experience. That he kept eating you out means he enjoyed it!

All the guys that are saying "no" to this type of behavior just don't know. If your SO does it without your anticipation, you'd feel different.

I have more to say but I need to let this all sink in.

You are a BEAST Jen