[Something_Awesome]

lol - does she kiss you after bum oral too?

Y'know what? I have not paid attention to that. You don't kiss after someone gives you bum oral?

[jen1447]

Yeah, that's almost always a winner. Good job.

I guess you can look at all these sex acts in a general sense as something you do together, but in particular I'd think the balls are more for you and the bum is more for her, so it's hard to really compare them unless you're saying you like getting better than giving - which I know you don't.

lol - does she kiss you after bum oral too?

[Something_Awesome]

I think she associates slapping with domestic violence. That is why she can't really do it.

She can't get better because she kisses me know after I've given her oral (don't know if you remember that I had that issue).

Just a side note. I like the balls hitting more than eating out her butt (both are relatively new to us). Ranks higher in my opinion. Though butt eating is now a staple part of our sexy time. Oh, btw, the sticking my tongue in while sucking worked really well

[jen1447]

I do not know if she is laughing at me or her "power." I shoud ask.

That's a good point. My guess is it's a combination - the laughing at you is a game (she 'likes' degrading you but she doesn't actually want to degrade you), but the giddy over her power thing is real. It's a heady feeling to know you have so much pull that you can actually hurt someone (or threaten to) and have them like it. You're not running away, you're just standing pat and taking it ....for her. She feels the love.

Sometimes, I can get pretty tense when she makes me anticipate a hit. Sometimes, I want her to punch my balls while, at the same time, I don't want her to punch them (it's weird). My guess is that your BF is more tolerant than I am.

I think the contradiction is a big part of the appeal. Who really wants to get hit in the balls? Nobody normally, but when it's a hot woman who you love, suddenly painful stuff you'd normally avoid becomes okay.

Oh no! Jenzilla is coming! There are plenty of other women to steal outside of The Valley. Why come here and steal mine? I doubt you could steal her. My GF's mom is very very sharp and street smart. She put a lesbian barrier around her that you can't get through. I more convinced now than before. Had my doubts before, but the subject has become like beating a dead horse between me and her (got to that point thanks to your claims) and I am pretty certain now that she can't be converted.

Wait - did you actually tell her I was coming for her?

She has done some slapping, but she is scared to slap me really hard (yes, even though she hits my balls). I wouldn't mind if she slapped me outside of sex to be honest. Maybe yell something at me in a foreign language when she is mad at me and then slap me really hard

She and I both love it when she pulls my hair... Hard... Looooooove it.

Somehow a beautiful woman yelling at you in a foreign language does sound really hot lol. I think she could probably be convinced to dish it out full strength, just explain to her what it's for. Jeez, how can this woman get any better? (swoon)

[Something_Awesome]

btw I assume SAGF laughs at you and mocks you as part of her degradation kink.

I do not know it is a kink because she is genuinely smiling/laughing. It's not a villainous laugh if that's what you're wondering. I mean, I generally never flinch for anything. I am hard to scare, startle, whatever. She's getting a response from me she hasn't seen before. Her laugh is not a play laugh, it is genuine. I do not know if she is laughing at me or her "power." I shoud ask.

Sometimes, I can get pretty tense when she makes me anticipate a hit. Sometimes, I want her to punch my balls while, at the same time, I don't want her to punch them (it's weird). My guess is that your BF is more tolerant than I am.

I may have to rethink my promise not to seduce her lol - think I'm falling in love. Where do you live again?

Oh no! Jenzilla is coming! There are plenty of other women to steal outside of The Valley. Why come here and steal mine? I doubt you could steal her. My GF's mom is very very sharp and street smart. She put a lesbian barrier around her that you can't get through. I more convinced now than before. Had my doubts before, but the subject has become like beating a dead horse between me and her (got to that point thanks to your claims) and I am pretty certain now that she can't be converted.

does she ever talk about beating you in other ways or does she play around with other kink like that? I've 'slapped around' the BF before, which is actually pretty hot. (And before anyone gets scared, yes it's sex play and consensual.)

Um. She talks about restraining me pretty often. She likes to bite the shoulders, neck, and my lips. Have to be careful with the lips because she's made them bleed before. Also have to be careful with the neck. I don't need to walk around with "battle scars." Shoulders I don't really care about. It's tougher flesh . She does not bite a lot. Biting is not the meat and potatoes of the kink, it's more like a light seasoning.

She has done some slapping, but she is scared to slap me really hard (yes, even though she hits my balls). I wouldn't mind if she slapped me outside of sex to be honest. Maybe yell something at me in a foreign language when she is mad at me and then slap me really hard

She and I both love it when she pulls my hair... Hard... Looooooove it.

[Motorguy]

Thanks.


Well we abuse our balls proudly and unapologetically. So you guys might have to be Busted Balls Anonymous, but me and SAGF would be Ballbusters Inc.

btw I assume SAGF laughs at you and mocks you as part of her degradation kink. I may have to rethink my promise not to seduce her lol - think I'm falling in love. Where do you live again?

Oh, I was gonna ask this in the other thread but this one seems better ....does she ever talk about beating you in other ways or does she play around with other kink like that? I've 'slapped around' the BF before, which is actually pretty hot. (And before anyone gets scared, yes it's sex play and consensual.)

OMG this is way to much wow going to start a ball busting club way to funny.

[jen1447]

BTW Jen, I got caught up and forgot to mention that what you did was really freakin' awesome. Fun read.

Thanks.

If anyone needs to join anything, it's you and the GF. A ballbuster enthusiast club where you can exchange ballbusting ideas to use on our (your) balls! OMG someone make this happen.

Well we abuse our balls proudly and unapologetically. So you guys might have to be Busted Balls Anonymous, but me and SAGF would be Ballbusters Inc.

btw I assume SAGF laughs at you and mocks you as part of her degradation kink. I may have to rethink my promise not to seduce her lol - think I'm falling in love. Where do you live again?

Oh, I was gonna ask this in the other thread but this one seems better ....does she ever talk about beating you in other ways or does she play around with other kink like that? I've 'slapped around' the BF before, which is actually pretty hot. (And before anyone gets scared, yes it's sex play and consensual.)

[Motorguy]

Okay so I bluffed the BF last night. I handcuffed him and made him figure he was gonna get his balls busted, but then ....I didn't. On purpose. So hopefully now he's really uncertain about when and how I'll actually do it next. He asked me about it kind of sheepishly later and I just told him to mind his own business. Keeping him guessing and powerless, thanks SumSum.

(I did sort of slap his guy a few times during other activities, which teased the possibility but I didn't follow thru. lol SumSum, you and BF may have to join a ballbusting support group. )

That have such a thing ball busting group is it like AA meeting lol.

[Something_Awesome]

BTW Jen, I got caught up and forgot to mention that what you did was really freakin' awesome. Fun read.

[Something_Awesome]

You mean like during cowgirl, reaching behind her bum?

I was thinking of just walking up to BF and giving him a shot from the front.

Yes. And she has done it during missionary. But she did not reach around my butt obviously.

Okay so I bluffed the BF last night. I handcuffed him and made him figure he was gonna get his balls busted, but then ....I didn't. On purpose. So hopefully now he's really uncertain about when and how I'll actually do it next. He asked me about it kind of sheepishly later and I just told him to mind his own business. Keeping him guessing and powerless, thanks SumSum.

(I did sort of slap his guy a few times during other activities, which teased the possibility but I didn't follow thru. lol SumSum, you and BF may have to join a ballbusting support group. )

Yes! I thought about this before you even posted about it!! Tie/cuff the guy but don't hit his balls! I imagined (and hoped) my GF would try something like that in Vegas! I also imaged her acting like she would hit them, but doesn't. Anticipation of the strike is everything!

You know what I like that I did not want to admit? When she acts like she is going to hit them while she is staring me in the eyes, but doesn't, and I flinch (because I think she is going to do it) and then she laughs at me for flinching. I didn't admit this before, but if she laughs at me for reacting to the anticipation of the hit (not the hit itself) I get real turned on. She will laugh and say certain stuff (regarding how I flinched and she didn't even do anything). Do you know what I mean?

Of course, it's a turn on even if she laughs and I am not in position to see her face. But some laughing is good.

If anyone needs to join anything, it's you and the GF. A ballbuster enthusiast club where you can exchange ballbusting ideas to use on our (your) balls! OMG someone make this happen.