[jen1447]

I'd be careful Patti Pie. Maybe he's a great guy and if so fine, but you don't want to put yourself in a position where you could be overpowered by a sex-crazed big guy if you're not certain about him. And this is coming from Ms. Risk Taker lol.

[Patti-here]

Me and Heather talked it over again before she went to work, I'm staying home cause I don't feel so good, she seems very determined to do this, im not sure what her motivation is though..

[bootsie]

If you knew beforehand there was chance of you joining in, would you watch anyway ?

Yes I would,Plus I have already have experienced something like this a few times and enjoyed it very well as well as the women I was with.I did it because they wanted me to and from what I was told,They had planned it to have me watch and join in.

[Patti-here]

Yes I would,Plus I have already have experienced something like this a few times and enjoyed it very well as well as the women I was with.I did it because they wanted me to and from what I was told,They had planned it to have me watch and join in.

I'm sorry that should have read "no' chance of joining in, sorry for the misunderstanding.

[chaya]

Maybe you should strip him and make him watch naked. That way you could better judge his reaction.. if you know what I mean.

[Patti-here]

Maybe you should strip him and make him watch naked. That way you could better judge his reaction.. if you know what I

mean.

At this point in my life, I'd rather not see his "Reaction" lol..

[Euphoric]

Patti,

I understand the thrill of spontaneity , but I also think it's wise to plan carefully. If you and your gf followed a scripted act, it would seem too mechanical. Laying down the ground rules several days in advance would give the "guest" time to digest your expectations and accept them. From that point, inviting said guest over for a few drinks and allowing nature to takes its course should still be just as exciting with a little reassurance. Making sure no recording devices are present is sage advice! The only thing else I'll add, although you are one smart cookie so it's probably unnecessary, make sure your guest doesn't have the power to hold this over your head in the future. Hope you feel better soon.

Euphoric

[Patti-here]

Thank you Euphoric, the ground rules will be laid down well in advance, and of course there will be no recording devices present, I'm sure my G/F will frisk him

[Something_Awesome]

Just because he is a bounces does not mean he is a stand up guy for protecting you. In order to be an effective bouncer, you need to have a certain mentality that size can't make up for. In other words, every bounces needs a little bit of a_sshole in him. As far as being overpowerd goes.... lol... At 5'1'', probably any guy can overpower you.

You don't know any chill guy to ask?

[Patti-here]

I guess we could get another ski instructor to watch us, but we're running out of time S.A.