Are there places, aside from the obvious, that you love to touch, or be touched?
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sensual touching
Most of you know I'm not sexually active right now, and there's a lot i miss about sex. Today, i was thinking about touching and missing the sensuality of a man touching certain body parts, like the bend of my hip and the small of my back. I find myself touching that part of my hip too. It just has a sexy shape and I love it.
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Well astkitty, I don't know if your query was directed solely to the women here, but I'll volunteer that I just love both seeing and touching those parts you mention. Especially the hip. It's so different from guys. When my wife lies on her side in bed, especially when naked or just with her usual skimpy panties, the curve of the raised hip is just so doggone sexy and appealing. Hard to resist running one's hand over it.I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old. -
Hips are great, and the best handling of them is with a nice soft caress running up and down them, maybe with fingers turned slightly inward so your nails create just a bit of friction on the skin. (No scratching.)
I love necks too - not talking about the choking stuff here (which has its place) but sometimes a gentle hold under the chin while kissing can be really erotic. Also makes it really convenient to slip a finger in the tongue mix too from time to time.
Small of the back is great for feeling a man's beard stubble on your skin since it's not hyper-sensitive but you can still pick up the sensation. I get that a lot when BF is kissing around back there and then he sometimes just rubs his face (very casually) over everything.
And don't forget feet - not a sex organ per se but still intensely sexual. Mine are really soft and I love getting a nice, long, gentle but persistent massage in all sorts of ways, including some oral sampling. BF loves to rub his face on them too, and I love sitting back and watching and choosing which one he'll work on by putting it forward and for how long, and showing him it's time for some tongue action but putting them in his mouth.
Good thread kitty!
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Touch is so underrated . . . SO likes to be lightly touched/rubbed from under her breasts, around her belly to just underneath her panty line. It relaxes her and I can touch her and gaze at her body all day."The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"Comment
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My professor called it skin hunger and it's not just between sexual partners. I think the skin-to-skin contact is the best part about sex. Even more so than the orgasm. My favorite sex positions are the ones with the most skin contact.Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)Comment
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Well Kitty, your right the touching and cuddling can be very overwhelming at time and be pleasurable as well.For me and wife it all depends on the mood we are in if she tired from working all day. Or just doesn't want sex then we will kiss and just work the hands and fingers or lips over her body.When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.Comment
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Ok, I don't think my GF is too unique from other women when it comes to being touched, so no need to bore you with what she likes. However, she loves me eating her ears and licking the inside of them. I don't get turned on by doing this, but I do enjoy seeing and hearing her reaction. Her reaction to ear eating/licking is actually quite similar to how I react when she touches me... almost anywhere. With that, I shall now segue into what happens when she touches me.
Ok, this is going to sound a little weird, but I am VERY ticklish. Neck, shouders, tricep area, certain spots on the back, sides, a_ss (yes, my butt is ticklish), and feet. My zones that are most ticklish are the neck, butt, and feet. If my GF just straight-up attacks those three zones (which she does do for fun) I will laugh uncontrollably.
Now, she is really good with touch. She can manipulate her touch so that I do not feel ticklish (even in those three extreme zones), and this is where the fun is. She can caress and stroke my zones in such a way that I get goosebumps everywhere instead of feeling tickled. For instance, she can caress my neck in a way that triggers a chain reaction of goosebumps. They will start on the back of the neck and travel through my back, arms, sides, and legs. When the goosebumps travel across my whole body I feel like a reptile. My nipples get hard too. I feel like Adrian Peterson in that Nike commercial that shows him having reptile-esque skin at the end.
When my GF sees and feels the goosebumps she gets turned on because she likes how her touch can evoke such reactions. Sometimes when she gives me that goosebump-evoking touch, I feel like I want to collapse. I turn to mush.
Of course, my ticklishness does wear off. I do become desensitized and, at that point, become like everyone else. However, if I do not feel her touch for an extended period of time, my skin resets and I become sensitive again.
I will also say that I need to at least like the person touching me for my skin to have these reactions. Rosie O'Donnell cannot turn me into a reptile
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