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Age difference
As some of you may know, my husband and I have an arrangement that allows me to have college senior as my sex partner. Even though it is great for both of us; this guy is thirty years younger that me. I not complaining; I just find it fascinating that I could still please him. I lost my virginity to a guy that was over twenty years older than me. Anyone else been with a sexual partner that was much older, or much younger? -
When I was younger (17 to late 20's) I was always more attracted to older men (twenty plus years) that to me my own age. I really liked their sophistication and self confidence. My first sexual experience at age 17 was with a teacher in his late thirties. In college I had sex with several professors all in their late 30's to late 40's. Plus they were really turned on by having sex with a young girl, which turned me on. Even after college I usually had sex with men 10 to 20 years older. I also had sex with several older women in college.
Now that I just turned 30 I find my attraction to older men has started to fade and I am attracted to younger men. I recently had sex with a 18 year old virgin male which was fantastic. I now love being the experienced one guiding the younger partner. And I find myself turned on by the idea of introducing some young girl to sex as well. I just have to be sure I don't get involved with anyone under 18.Comment
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Interesting. I am the reverse. The younger I was, the more I was into females my age. The older I've been getting the more I might check out older women. Wouldn't ever cheat on my GF though. She actually has been looking better every year since we've been together."Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447Comment
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Well over 18 and adult it's just a number if you happy with that younger person and they are happy with you they older women it's no big deal in my book. I know many closed minded people will look down at you for it more so if it's a younger women and older man. Then the older women and younger man i don't know why it just seem that way. All it matters you both happy and enjoy each other.As some of you may know, my husband and I have an arrangement that allows me to have college senior as my sex partner. Even though it is great for both of us; this guy is thirty years younger that me. I not complaining; I just find it fascinating that I could still please him. I lost my virginity to a guy that was over twenty years older than me. Anyone else been with a sexual partner that was much older, or much younger?When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.Comment
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Though I love sex in all forms I'm especially fond of being intimate with much younger men. I'm 52-years old and in an open marriage which allows me to take part in my fantasy. I do have older lovers and enjoy being with them very much, but there is just something about joining my body with a young, well built, handsome young man in their 20s and 30s that is just a turn on for me. I've actually allowed myself to be "picked up" by these younger men while on business trips (usually these are men in their 30s). It feels so naughty during these trips but I love it! I shy away from the married ones (if they admit it) though as I don't want anyone to be hurt from our encounter. I'm sure plenty have lied but then that's on their head. It's like checking an ID to buy wine. If you give me a good fake one I will sell it to you. Well if you lie about your marriage status and there are no indications you are married (ring tan lines) then off we go. Of course my husband gets to know all the gory details later. I even phone him before meeting with the man to let him know exactly where I'll be and where to find me if I don't answer my phone at a pre-arranged time (for safety).
Sounds a bit complicated but it really isn't. It's something I enjoy now and then (I travel about 3 or 4 times a year without my husband) and it's a source of great pleasure.
NatalieComment
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I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 51. Before this relationship, my sexual partners had only been 2-3 years older or younger than me. So this was quite a leap, and needless to say, friends and family disapproved from day one. But the love and the sex is better between us than we had with any of our previous partners. I tell my friends not to be so quick to judge... a mature partner has more sexual experience to draw from. I love every part of being with him. And ignore the critics.Comment
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Yes,I have.Being a male and I am kinda embarrassed to admit this,because I never told no one but one other person about this.When I was much younger.(15 yrs oldmatter fact) I lost my virginity to a woman who was over 30 yrs older than I was at the time.As some of you may know, my husband and I have an arrangement that allows me to have college senior as my sex partner. Even though it is great for both of us; this guy is thirty years younger that me. I not complaining; I just find it fascinating that I could still please him. I lost my virginity to a guy that was over twenty years older than me. Anyone else been with a sexual partner that was much older, or much younger?Comment
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