[Motorguy]

And Bootsie, had you been a 15-year-old girl with a 45-year-old guy, he'd now be in jail and you could sue for damages, claiming he ruined your life. You could try that, but I doubt it would be taken seriously.

Well on this topic there is a different standard from older women being sexually with underage boy and older man and underage girl. The punishment for this crime is not even on the same level and that is wrong.

[Lovcookie]

I am with a woman 10 years younger and it is not a issue at all. She can out race me up a hill but not because I am older. Only because she has made herself very fit (I am fit too). The most was a brief relationship with a woman who was 26 and our difference was 20 years. This we both knew was a short term thing. I have been with one 6 years older but not more. To me if I find them physically attractive then age is not a factor up about a 12 to 15 year difference. At least for me.

[fasa0589]

I think the age difference sex more attractive to bring the case I'm enjoying incredible. Already at the first sexual experience was with a girl mature sexy. It was a complete crazy

[Motorguy]

I was with a man 15 years older than me for a while and yes it was good but eventually the age difference catches up with you on so many levels. I'm much happier being with a man my age.

Well Romy, it's good till the newness wear off but it's better to be with someone close to your own age.I really believe it makes for a better relationship down the road for both. My oldest daughter dated a man who was 20 years older when she was 20 and this was like gas and fire. I am glad she was able to get away from him but she not been doing well in the dating department. So she is more focus on her daughter and work now instead of dating.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Yes,I have.Being a male and I am kinda embarrassed to admit this,because I never told no one but one other person about this.When I was much younger.(15 yrs oldmatter fact) I lost my virginity to a woman who was over 30 yrs older than I was at the time.

Why embarrassed? 45+ is a great age in a woman. Curious do you ever regret that or are you glad that occurred and who instigated it, duh I know the answer to the last bit but am quite curious to get your thoughts.

[Motorguy]

Why embarrassed? 45+ is a great age in a woman. Curious do you ever regret that or are you glad that occurred and who instigated it, duh I know the answer to the last bit but am quite curious to get your thoughts.

That's right CW, there is many beautiful sexy women who are 45+ my wife being one of them.A women who is 50 is like a women who was 35 25 years ago. Many women over 40 are taking a lot better care of them self now days and are more independent as well too.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I think all woman take care of themselves personally but as they get older they are wiser and doesn't mean they make the right decisions I mean, when I was in the dating game again at 45 I have to be honest, as an assertive woman who knows what she wants and is happy to wait for it and not settle, doesn't mean that I didn't become a "bit" cheeky and accept what "I wanted" regardless of age, well, here and there, just here and there.

[jen1447]

It's odd but there does seem to be some sort of general assumption (not just here) that 'older' women need to somehow plead their case for viability. "I'm 45/55/65 but I'm very sexually active" or "but I'm still hot" or "but I still feel like a legitimate member of society." wtf? Women don't come with expiration dates. The assumption should be that everyone's fully functioning, no matter the age, unless they show they're not for whatever reason.

I think the age difference sex more attractive to bring the case I'm enjoying incredible. Already at the first sexual experience was with a girl mature sexy. It was a complete crazy

This is kinda full of awesome.

[DreamP346]

Why embarrassed?

Because in some places in America, this will be considered statutory rape.

[bootsie]

And Bootsie, had you been a 15-year-old girl with a 45-year-old guy, he'd now be in jail and you could sue for damages, claiming he ruined your life. You could try that, but I doubt it would be taken seriously.

Baboy,I know that and you might be right,but at the time when this happened to me,They viewed it different when it was women who did that.This was done to me when I was a patient in a local children hospital by a woman who was lefted in charge to take care of me while my mom was home with my other sibilings.It happened on my birthday and this woman thought it was time for me to learn about sex and become a man she said.