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  • jen1447
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    • Oct 2013
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    I can usually pretty much control when BF cums in a variety of ways. lol, have any of you ladies started an orgasm, followed by him, and then still been cumming after he finished? It's kind of funny.

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    • shoshannah
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      • Nov 2010
      • 228

      Originally posted by jen1447
      I can usually pretty much control when BF cums in a variety of ways. lol, have any of you ladies started an orgasm, followed by him, and then still been cumming after he finished? It's kind of funny.
      I can control hubby as well. Sometimes it's more fun to be simultaneous, but sometimes when I'm especially tired after a long day I like things to be short and sweet, so I'll do things that make him get there quickly whether he wants to or not. But yes, I have often started before him and outlasted him.

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      • Something_Awesome
        Veteran Member
        • Apr 2014
        • 1219

        Originally posted by jen1447
        I can usually pretty much control when BF cums in a variety of ways. lol, have any of you ladies started an orgasm, followed by him, and then still been cumming after he finished? It's kind of funny.
        Elaborate, Orgasm Queen. You cum; he cums; he finishes cumming; you cum again?
        "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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        • jen1447
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2013
          • 2380

          No lol, specifically I mean we're getting there, I start cumming and I trigger him, so he starts cumming maybe a few seconds later, we both spend a few seconds cumming, he finishes, I spend a few more seconds cumming from the same orgasm I started moments before his and he kind of sits there watching me, then finally I finish. I'm not actually a duration queen like some women I've read on here and some I've been with (minute long orgasms and whatnot), but I do pretty much always go longer than BF. I think a typical guy orgasm is what, 10-15 seconds? Anyway it doesn't happen often because we don't go at the same time too often. You're probably familiar with SAGF, but when you have a her-orgasm priority relationship, the girl spends most of the time cumming and the guy usually gets his reward afterwards when his work is done.

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          • Motorguy
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            • Mar 2014
            • 3921

            Originally posted by shoshannah
            I can control hubby as well. Sometimes it's more fun to be simultaneous, but sometimes when I'm especially tired after a long day I like things to be short and sweet, so I'll do things that make him get there quickly whether he wants to or not. But yes, I have often started before him and outlasted him.
            Well it's very true most women can out last a man in the sex department. That's why you better be good at oral or something so when the guys recharging you can do some oral to keep the wife or girl friend primed for round 2 lol.
            When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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            • SpicyV
              Member
              • Jun 2014
              • 76

              Originally posted by jen1447
              No lol, specifically I mean we're getting there, I start cumming and I trigger him, so he starts cumming maybe a few seconds later, we both spend a few seconds cumming, he finishes, I spend a few more seconds cumming from the same orgasm I started moments before his and he kind of sits there watching me, then finally I finish. I'm not actually a duration queen like some women I've read on here and some I've been with (minute long orgasms and whatnot), but I do pretty much always go longer than BF. I think a typical guy orgasm is what, 10-15 seconds? Anyway it doesn't happen often because we don't go at the same time too often. You're probably familiar with SAGF, but when you have a her-orgasm priority relationship, the girl spends most of the time cumming and the guy usually gets his reward afterwards when his work is done.

              Ya pretty much this. LOL

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              • Motorguy
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                • Mar 2014
                • 3921

                Originally posted by shoshannah
                I can control hubby as well. Sometimes it's more fun to be simultaneous, but sometimes when I'm especially tired after a long day I like things to be short and sweet, so I'll do things that make him get there quickly whether he wants to or not. But yes, I have often started before him and outlasted him.
                I have to say ShosHannah you have very cute toes very nice indeed lol. My wife motor in primed gear after i orgasm so I'll continue on with oral while I am recharging lol.
                When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                • Natalie1962
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                  • Jul 2014
                  • 71

                  Not that important to me. In fact I like getting my orgasms first and then just lying back and watching my lover go all out in order to achieve his orgasm, especially if he's much younger than me. It feels wonderful my old body being the source of his pleasure for the moment. To be truthful, just that thought alone can bring me over the edge if he continues long enough, especially when he makes his release inside of me.

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