[Mr. Inquisitive]

Pretty much instantly, unless I want something different. He's well conditioned now. Some guys like blue balls btw, I think it's actually not far off from ball abuse like SAGF does in that it 'hurts,' which is arousing for the guy. Also the withholding is a psychological turn on.

Hubs - you're pretty respectable for your age, good job.

I read somewhere that if a guy holds back too much it can lead to erectile disfunction. Perhaps this may be why his recovery time is taking longer.

[beethovengenius]

muffin, never refer to what you do as "squirting." Women squirt, gush, shoot, etc. Men mostly just cum, or if you have to use another word, make it something manly like "unload" or "open fire" or whatever.

I'm pretty sure the volume thing is genetic. At least I've seen quite a variety in volume among men. Even two of the same age for example will have different amounts.

As an experiment measure you're BF's ring finger in ratio to his index finger on his right hand. The longer the ring finger is to his index finger the more masculine he is going to be. The theory is that when the foetus was exposed to testosterone in utero it shaped his ring finger to be longer than the index. And thus,ladies if you want to check out how big a guy's **************** is don't look at his feet or even height as a predictor of size, measure his ring finger on his right hand.It's a marker of virility and of course the ring finger goes by another name as well "the casanova" finger.

[M694V80]

Hello Jen,

Good question.

Im around 35 by the way.

On Recovery time:
I can't talk on behave of most men but generally I haven't noticed a change on recovery time.
Im always very active. Now that my wife is pregnant and I can't have the frequency we are used to I masturbate around 3 times a day to say the least. When I wake up, When I get home from work and to go to sleep.
I have can't sleep much and maybe that has to do with it. I feel a bit tired after ejaculating, and my mastrubation sessions are pretty long. I edge a lot my ejaculations are very overwhelming. I get a bit tired after but its very hard for me to go to sleep.Unless its around 4am. Thats where i go to sleep usually. I wake up at 8am-9am or so.
I have been in this "training" since i can remember. Some times I have finished mastrubating and edging for a quite a while and soon after my wife wants sex....thats never a problem for me but there is hard for me to ejaculate right after she needs to finish me of orally or i have to struggle to cum for a while.
I could say that if I rest 15 minutes I can go again at least for 2 to 3 times with out having much trouble.
The fourth or fifthe time is another story. Some times Its takes a while for the fourth time.
So I do it in the morning i pass around 10 hours with out masturbating or sex and then have to ejaculations in around 3 hours time frame at night.

On Loads:
Until I started working my PC muscle daily for the past 17 years or so. I 50% dribbled sperm out and 50% shoot long ropes.
After I read about PC muscle workout I have been able to shoot around 70% of the time. If I edge 3 or 4 times i can shoot long ropes always.But if its normal mastrubation its just depends on how i am marsturbating how much i squeeze on the release and a couple of other variants.

On quantity:
Heres is the problem I don't ejaculate more than 3/4 or half a teaspoon aways. I am trying to ejaculate bigger loads constantly thats the holly grail for me...problem is its not that easy and you need a lot of pills like Soy Lecithin, Zinc, L-argine and Maca Root.
Not sure if my mix work but when i was trying to get my girl pregnant which I did sooner that i thought so (3 months) because of frequent sexual intecourse or masturbation. But seem that this mix, plus edging for a while and holding cum with PC muscle gave me good results and if i ad a couple of days of abstinence I have had managed to cum a lot. More that I have expected.

I have researched a bit and with my frequency my body is used to produce more Sperm that some one that ejaculates once a day or 2 times a week.

Once I went on a trip to visit a family member and he had a big one room apartment I sleep on the sofa and of course i couldn't masturbate.
I felt awkward doing it in the bath room. I managed to hold it for 6 or 8 days I can't remember exactly.
But as soon as I had sex i came outside her vagina and I shoot more than I have ever imagined. While shooting first ropes I was like wow, and then more and mora and i just laughed at how much i was expelling. My recovery time was reduced or at least i thought i was, and i think i have a very short recovery time. That day in one after noon i think i had sex like 3 times and that night one more. Last ejaculation was as described above decent but not amazing.

I think it all depends on your genetics, your "training" and how important it is for you.

Now I have a hard on....lol
Regards,

[beethovengenius]

I personally ejaculate anywhere from one table spoon to about two table spoons. Then again I'm fairly athletic and my ring finger is indeed longer than my index. I am 28 years old. I do take a lot of supplements especially minerals though, and I eat a plant based diet. And I take gram levels of vitamin c daily. It might explain why I have a fairly large amount of ejaculate.

[effy2014]

I live in a completely different world than most of you men. The only time my ejaculate has been "measured", by me or anyone, was for two sperm tests (one in my mid thirties, the other in my early forties) and my only recollection was to be horrified by how big the collection container was via-a-vis the sample size. I realized that "cumming a quart", a popularized quote from many a Penthouse Letter, was an outrageous exaggeration. lol

Procreation aside, I haven't had the slightest information or interest in the quantity (or indeed the quality) of my ejaculate. Sorry that I haven't more to contribute.

[Baboy]

I am also part of that "other world". I have never thought to measure my output. Not sure why I would.

I had a gf once who always wanted me to pull out and come on her stomach, or her back, or her breasts. She often commented "Wow, that's a lot." She had some experience with guys and I don't know on what basis she concluded "That's a lot". It was not so important to me that I wanted to ask her about her observations of others. It was perhaps also the case that she said the same to all her bfs. She also said that my loads bore some resemblance at times to intercontinental ballistic missiles. Sometimes I'd pull out and most of it would go flying over her head and keep going until it encountered a solid object. I have no idea if my ejaculation has the flat shooting trajectory of a 7 mm. Remington Magnum today, given that my wife always wants it in her vagina or in her mouth.

Like effy, I also have had a couple of tests, on each occasion when getting into a new relationship with a partner who did not care herself for pills or other form of birth control for women. It occurred to me I should find out if I was fertile because, if it turned out I was shooting blanks, why worry?

I am aware that in those tests, volume is measured, as is consistency, color, sperm count, motility etc. All I seem to recall seeing when the results came back was the not-terribly-informative result summary: "Normal sample". I did not go back and ask just how voluminous was that normal sample.

[Something_Awesome]

As an experiment measure you're BF's ring finger in ratio to his index finger on his right hand. The longer the ring finger is to his index finger the more masculine he is going to be. The theory is that when the foetus was exposed to testosterone in utero it shaped his ring finger to be longer than the index. And thus,ladies if you want to check out how big a guy's ******************************** is don't look at his feet or even height as a predictor of size, measure his ring finger on his right hand.It's a marker of virility and of course the ring finger goes by another name as well "the casanova" finger.

Well... my ring finger is only slightly longer than my index finger...

[Motorguy]

Well I wish it went by my shoes size that's 13 but again the wife has never complain. with my size at all. So what ever I am doing it's been working.

[effy2014]

I am aware that in those tests, volume is measured, as is consistency, color, sperm count, motility etc. All I seem to recall seeing when the results came back was the not-terribly-informative result summary: "Normal sample". I did not go back and ask just how voluminous was that normal sample.

I am a bit surprised that the results you received did not come with a letter complementing you on the quantity, quality and consistency of your sample. I assumed that would be de rigueur in LA. Here in the Midwest, my report just said "friendly and hard working". Must be how I got three kids.

[Baboy]

Me too effy, I was surprised. And, as well, disappointed that I did not receive letters from sperm banks around the country offering to pay a premium price for however many quarts of my very superior quality baby juice I could produce.

While I might have been content to become a "tied house" and to commit my entire production for, say a 10-year contract, to a single buyer at the right price, my wife might have complained and taken some drastic action on seeing her supply dry up, so to speak.

You are to be commended on your friendly and hard working gametes. Fertility clinics these days are awash with with sperm that are stand-offish, haven't a clue where to find an egg to hook up with and are just plain lazy. Indolent sperm are becoming a scourge.