[jen1447]

I had a very enjoyable threesome last weekend with two other lovely ladies. What does everyone think of all the different forms of group sex like this? Personally I like threesomes because they're still limited enough that the action goes on between the three. Foursomes get to be a problem logistically, mainly because with two possible pairs the tendency is just to pair off anyway. So even if you switch off, it's not really everybody having sex with each other at the same time. And even if you make it an interactive thing between all four at the same time, you start running out of room and it gets uncomfortable. Beyond four just ends up being a bunch of people in a room together who all happen to be having sex. So I guess I'm good with solo operations (masturbation), partnered sex, and threesomes for the most part. Foursomes and beyond maybe on rare celebratory occasions only - like I've had pretty crazy group things with a gang of women on new years.

What about you?

[Something_Awesome]

Never had a threesome. GF had a semi-close friend that wanted us to threesome with her (which she initially brought up out of the blue), but we were not down for that. I am not really wired for threesomes.

As far as group things, I think it would be hot to do it at like a party with my GF and other (adults) watching, but it will NEVER happen thanks to today's phones.

[SpicyV]

Threesomes are fun never done 4 or more but I don't think it would be as much fun. I am pretty selfish if another girl is involved so threesomes for me go better with three girls or me and two guys. If 2 girls and a guy... I kinda don't like him play with her much. lol

[jen1447]

I guess I'm the opposite in that I've had a couple FFMs where I've had a hard time finding enough time for BF. SumSum, I don't think I see any threesomes in your future, which I'm sure is just how you want it lol.

[Something_Awesome]

Quality over quantity!

Also, I think the laws of diminishing returns applies to group sex the way it does to economics lmao.

[effy2014]

As far as group things, I think it would be hot to do it at like a party with my GF and other (adults) watching, but it will NEVER happen thanks to today's phones.

It will always come back to haunt you.

[jen1447]

I can appreciate the concern but I've had it not come back to haunt me. Live life on your own terms, not a cell phone's!

[jns]

I've never had three way or more group sex. Mentally it sounds exciting, but I'm not sure if it was available if I would take up the offer even if I was single.

I do have some questions for jen, though. How do you even out the action so each person involved gets theirs? Is most of the action one on one with one sitting out, two on one, give and get at the same time by all, give and get by one with the other two only giving or getting or what? I'm not asking for a play by play, but evenhandedness is considered a favored situation. Also with something like two on one, if it is done to compliment the other one, it would seem that the person who is object of the attention would get off quicker and harder.

[jen1447]

It can be a variety of things but like I said, the three figure naturally lends itself to each participating. (No pairing off possible.) You can do two on one stuff which is fun and intense for the receiver, or the 'train' type stuff which is hot just because it's so unique, altho the middle one is still under a lot of pressure. Otherwise there's no blueprint when it's really successful, you just go where your instincts take you. Usually pretty awesome with the right players, but I wouldn't want to make it the norm. Doing it all the time would take away the mystique, which is honestly a big part of the appeal. One on one sex is really the best in the big picture.

[bootsie]

I've been in a MFM & FFM threesome a few times with different people.One was a couple and the others was 2 women who we were FWBs.I can say that I REALLY enjoyed both until things started going wrong with the one with the couple which all started out with the husband.Which is another hold story.I never went back after that first incident one night.Then on I just kept meeting up with the 2 women.I never have been with no more than that at one time.