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  • muffin70
    Veteran Member
    • Aug 2013
    • 384

    well I've never had a 3 some. but it has been a fantasy of mine for ages... to make love to my wife and another woman at the same time.... I've actually been having a fantasy recently that involves my wife having sex doggy style with a dark skinned well endowed man while I am lying under her playing with her breasts.
    naturally she is not keen on on any 3 some with another man or woman

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    • CoolBreeze
      Senior Member
      • May 2013
      • 112

      You need to have a group of like minded people who are willing to have communal sex as a hobby setting aside any post emotional baggage. The beauty of group sex when done properly is that several avenues open up to spice one's sex life. Jen1447 I am assuming that you are not only partial to ladies during group activities. Keeping a couple of males around to keep things oiled up is essential. However, my advice is to keep the males in place by ensuring your own dominance.
      Try pegging your males partners. Role reversal is a good tool to enhance one's pleasure activities. Just remember the greater the perversity the greater you will enjoy sex.

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      • jen1447
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2013
        • 2380

        I've had a couple threesomes that I let the BF participate in (me and another woman), but he really doesn't do well with it for various reasons so it's kind of done now. Otherwise, it's all women. I've never had a MFM and have no desire to.

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        • Romy
          Veteran Member
          • Jan 2014
          • 339

          Wish I could let go of the emotional stuff and the feelings of being threatened because of another woman joining in and just do it but I don't think I'll ever be able to.

          It intrigues me that couples can do this and not get caught up in the the emotional baggage that I see would occur if I went ahead and fulfilled my SO fantasy. Actually as I type this I can see that if the woman was not so much into men only woman it might work......

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          • Motorguy
            Veteran Member
            • Mar 2014
            • 3921

            Originally posted by Romy
            Wish I could let go of the emotional stuff and the feelings of being threatened because of another woman joining in and just do it but I don't think I'll ever be able to.

            It intrigues me that couples can do this and not get caught up in the the emotional baggage that I see would occur if I went ahead and fulfilled my SO fantasy. Actually as I type this I can see that if the woman was not so much into men only woman it might work......
            That's why i let my wife enjoy her girl friends who ever she went some times let only let me watched as I enjoy that. But wife been bi a long time and needs that touch and closeness to a women sometimes that makes her feel good. But as she told me don't worried I could give up you and your penis so you have nothing to worried about. So I am relive to hear those words lol.
            When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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            • jilljames8184
              Member
              • Jun 2014
              • 85

              Did a lot of group sex during college, with and without males. As long as each is willing to please and be pleased, everything works out great. Sometimes there would be one that wanted to be pleased but didn't want to put forth the effect to please. They were not invited back. My girlfriends and I decided guys who knew what to do with their penis were better than a strapon and cheaper than batteries.

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              • jen1447
                Veteran Member
                • Oct 2013
                • 2380

                Originally posted by jilljames8184
                My girlfriends and I decided guys who knew what to do with their penis were better than a strapon
                I wouldn't be too sure about that, at least not universally.

                Romy - you need a FFM. That's what I've had BF in on a couple times.

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                • Something_Awesome
                  Veteran Member
                  • Apr 2014
                  • 1219

                  Originally posted by jilljames8184
                  My girlfriends and I decided guys who knew what to do with their penis were better than a strapon and cheaper than batteries.
                  It's all in the glutes.

                  I bet my GF will be great with a strap on...
                  "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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                  • jen1447
                    Veteran Member
                    • Oct 2013
                    • 2380

                    There are actually some women who are better inclined to it than others. It's not really 'natural' for us to be good at thrusting (no biological need I suppose), but I've found that the ability to develop the skills is really varied. Some women can't get beyond the 'torso lunge' method, but others get the thrust method down and when that happens, watch out.

                    And yes, I have a feeling SAGF will be great.

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                    • Motorguy
                      Veteran Member
                      • Mar 2014
                      • 3921

                      Well group sex is something some can do. Then some who are to jealous to share there husband or wife. It's not for everyone but there many couples you enjoy this practice more then you can image.
                      When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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