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  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    From what I've seen is that some women don't seem to age much at all on the parts of their body where they don't get a lot of sun. That means they may get age lines on their faces and hands but their legs and torsos may be much younger looking if they have not let themselves go.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • Elena_EvilEye
      Veteran Member
      • Jun 2014
      • 372

      Natalie- Was the younger man a better sexual partner than your husband? Curious because a younger man might have more sexual energy and thrust better than an older man obviously it depends on individuals.
      It's all fun and games until you mess with a Portuguese girl.

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      • bootsie
        Senior Member
        • May 2013
        • 154

        I have been having sex with older women all my life.I first time having sex was with a woman who was much older than me.I love being with older women and have had some of my BEST!! sexual experiences with older women.I don't see anything wrong with older women being with younger guys.

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        • Motorguy
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2014
          • 3921

          Originally posted by bootsie
          I have been having sex with older women all my life.I first time having sex was with a woman who was much older than me.I love being with older women and have had some of my BEST!! sexual experiences with older women.I don't see anything wrong with older women being with younger guys.
          It's a known fact older women are some much more experiences. And can teach younger men a lot more then a older guy man can teach a younger women.
          When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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          • Romy
            Veteran Member
            • Jan 2014
            • 339

            A bit off topic but I was the older and experienced woman and took my boyfriend at the time's virginity. I was on top as well.....

            Back on topic, I think older women have lots to offer younger men. They are generally more confident, comfortable with themselves, not afraid to ask for what they want and can generally teach the man a thing or two.

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            • Natalie1962
              Member
              • Jul 2014
              • 71

              Originally posted by Elena_EvilEye
              Natalie- Was the younger man a better sexual partner than your husband? Curious because a younger man might have more sexual energy and thrust better than an older man obviously it depends on individuals.
              What I have with my husband is shared history of a long life together which gives us an intimacy not possible in short relationships. I would never trade that for sex. So, I guess as far as that no one can hold a candle to my husband. However, as far as the very act of sex these younger men are really something and I'm usually not disappointed. So the answer to your question is that younger men are "better" sexual partners than my husband. Of course they would be as they have the stamina, the young hard bodies, and the eagerness to learn. It's really not mind shattering sex every time since most of these younger men don't know what they are doing and need some instructions. If it's a "one night stand" and the man is very young (early 20s) it's a challenge for me. In those cases I just enjoy having the young body on top of me like a hairy blanket and if he lasts a long time and gives me an orgasm I've hit the jackpot. If I can't slow him down and he just goes for it and orgasms fast I don't worry about it. I do try and get a second round from him and he is usually better during that time but I can't always count on that. It doesn't matter at then end since I enjoy the entire act of sex and if I don't orgasm and he can't stick around for a second round I'm OK with that. But there is no real intimacy in those type of men (for that I go to my husband). It's just pure lust and vigor with them (which I admit I do enjoy now and then). I'm intoxicated with their youth. I've had more success with men in their early 30s as they are more relaxed and experienced but still have the young body and confidence. They usually aren't in a rush as the men in their 20s are so I can enjoy myself more and my husband can get to listen to a great story when I get home.

              Natalie

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              • Natalie1962
                Member
                • Jul 2014
                • 71

                There was a religious community in the 1850 in America called the Oneida community. They had initiated what is called "complex marriage" where everyone was married to each other and could have sex with each other. The birth rate was very low because the men never orgasmed during sex. They were trained to do this for the express purpose of not getting anyone pregnant without the consent of their leader. The younger men starting at about 16 or so were trained in this by practicing on older women who were past child bearing age. These older women taught them about sex and if the young man had an accident and came inside the woman no problem. He just had to do it over and over and over and over until he got it right. Imagine telling a 16 year old kid to go to this woman's home for "sex education" after school. I bet there weren't many who played hooky on that day.

                Natalie

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                • Claret
                  Assistant Admin
                  • Jan 2011
                  • 1823

                  It didn't last all that long, but long enough to start and maintain the Oneida Silverwear Company. They still make knives and forks to this day. Complex marriage is what was called the communal style of marriage and it also had some very strict rules as I understand it.
                  That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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                  • bootsie
                    Senior Member
                    • May 2013
                    • 154

                    Originally posted by Motorguy
                    It's a known fact older women are some much more experiences. And can teach younger men a lot more then a older guy man can teach a younger women.
                    Motorguy,I totally agree with you there.With older women is where I learned a lot about women sexually and non-sexually,as well as how to makelove to women the right way.I learned about what women liked and don't like when it comes to sex.Beside that,I have also learned a lot from women from being on boards like this one.I am very eagered to hear from women who wants to teach us the right thing and way.

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                    • Motorguy
                      Veteran Member
                      • Mar 2014
                      • 3921

                      Originally posted by Romy
                      A bit off topic but I was the older and experienced woman and took my boyfriend at the time's virginity. I was on top as well.....

                      Back on topic, I think older women have lots to offer younger men. They are generally more confident, comfortable with themselves, not afraid to ask for what they want and can generally teach the man a thing or two.
                      That very true Romy, it's probably best they do be with a older women and learn pleasure, before there with a women there age so they can be a better lover.
                      When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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