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  • CapeCRunner
    Veteran Member
    • Apr 2014
    • 242

    I can definitely agree that being on top is the best way for me to reach my climax. There are times when he creates a perfect rhythm himself but if he stops (even if I say to keep going) then I have to try to get back to where he's hitting that spot. On top is the easiest because you're the one getting him to hit the right spot, but when he does it himself I get a good climax... I just always lay there and hope that he doesn't finish before me so I can get there too lol

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    • Lovcookie
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      • May 2010
      • 222

      "They" say most women don't orgasm from penis penetration. This is not my experience. Even women that say they have a hard time to orgasm at all can and do have orgasms from only the penis. Most of the fun is finding the how. I agree, allow the woman do the grinding to her satisfaction is usually a winner.

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      • effy2014
        Veteran Member
        • Apr 2014
        • 1777

        Originally posted by Lovcookie
        "They" say most women don't orgasm from penis penetration. This is not my experience. Even women that say they have a hard time to orgasm at all can and do have orgasms from only the penis. Most of the fun is finding the how. I agree, allow the woman do the grinding to her satisfaction is usually a winner.
        "They" are scientists and sex researchers. The latest of which was a comprehensive review of 33 studies over 80 yeas. While your experience may be different, the sample size is not very large (as compared to the female population).
        "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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        • cathy23
          Member
          • Oct 2011
          • 69

          I've never had more or stronger orgasms than with the guy I'm with now with just his penis inside.

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          • Motorguy
            Veteran Member
            • Mar 2014
            • 3921

            That's great Cathy, sounds like a good relationship you have there.
            When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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            • shoshannah
              Veteran Member
              • Nov 2010
              • 228

              Another vote for woman on top. I can orgasm from just his penis if I'm on top. I can do it if I'm kneeling, but it's easier if I'm lying on him because I can move against him more easily.

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              • Sarahlee26
                Member
                • Oct 2014
                • 23

                I love feeling my SO come inside me. It feels incredibly amazing. The best ( physical) part of us making love is when I make him come.

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