I hope you can help me with this. My boyfriend and I are wanting to have sex, but I want to try and make it interesting. I want him to... You know... Have vaginal with me, while I use a dildo to do "anal masturbation," in a sense. Problem is, he'll notice if I clean my dildo, unless I'm in the shower, so I would like to know how I can clean it in there. It's a regular plastic dildo. I don't think we have any antibacteria soap in the house either.
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Alright, so hello everyone! Glad to be here.
I hope you can help me with this. My boyfriend and I are wanting to have sex, but I want to try and make it interesting. I want him to... You know... Have vaginal with me, while I use a dildo to do "anal masturbation," in a sense. Problem is, he'll notice if I clean my dildo, unless I'm in the shower, so I would like to know how I can clean it in there. It's a regular plastic dildo. I don't think we have any antibacteria soap in the house either. -
I use it in my vagina a lot, so I don't know if it's safe. And I'll be using it in my vagina after I use it for anal.Originally posted by nehaprajapatiYes you can clean but it is not need to much. Just do not think these things and enjoy good time.
And the reason I don't want him to know is since it's a surprise for his birthday.Comment
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Well it for sure not good to used a dildo that you been using anal then put inside your vagina. This could give you a serous infection not good. That go's for the same with your boy friend penis. So like Jen, mention get two dildo's you then don't have these issue so good luck with your fun play then.When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.Comment
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If you ensure your bowels have been emptied before you know you're gonna have some anal play it shouldn't be a problem. It does take some planning but it can ensure things stay clean. Yes, please do have an 'anal only' dildo that doesn't go anywhere else.
If he's into the whole anal thing and your relationship is intimate and honest then the occasional bit of mess shouldn't be a big deal - it's goes with the territory. Good luck.Comment
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Well it for sure not good to used a dildo that you been using anal then put inside your vagina. This could give you a serous infection not good. That go's for the same with your boy friend penis. So like Jen, mention get two dildo's you then don't have these issue so good luck with your fun play then.Alrighty then. I'll just go buy another one. I heard that you should clean your dildos and whatknot sometimes. Would using my shampoo on them be too bad?If you ensure your bowels have been emptied before you know you're gonna have some anal play it shouldn't be a problem. It does take some planning but it can ensure things stay clean. Yes, please do have an 'anal only' dildo that doesn't go anywhere else.
If he's into the whole anal thing and your relationship is intimate and honest then the occasional bit of mess shouldn't be a big deal - it's goes with the territory. Good luck.Comment
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