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  • SexyStories69
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    • Aug 2014
    • 5

    Need some help with this

    Alright, so hello everyone! Glad to be here.

    I hope you can help me with this. My boyfriend and I are wanting to have sex, but I want to try and make it interesting. I want him to... You know... Have vaginal with me, while I use a dildo to do "anal masturbation," in a sense. Problem is, he'll notice if I clean my dildo, unless I'm in the shower, so I would like to know how I can clean it in there. It's a regular plastic dildo. I don't think we have any antibacteria soap in the house either.
  • jen1447
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 2380

    Why do you need to clean the dildo right then, and why can't he see or know about it? Cleaning your toys is just good hygiene.

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    • SexyStories69
      Banned
      • Aug 2014
      • 5

      Originally posted by jen1447
      Why do you need to clean the dildo right then, and why can't he see or know about it? Cleaning your toys is just good hygiene.
      Originally posted by nehaprajapati
      Yes you can clean but it is not need to much. Just do not think these things and enjoy good time.
      I use it in my vagina a lot, so I don't know if it's safe. And I'll be using it in my vagina after I use it for anal.

      And the reason I don't want him to know is since it's a surprise for his birthday.

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      • jen1447
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2013
        • 2380

        Ah I see. Well you definitely shouldn't switch without cleaning then. The way to overcome that tho is to have two dildos!

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        • Motorguy
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2014
          • 3921

          Originally posted by SexyStories69
          I use it in my vagina a lot, so I don't know if it's safe. And I'll be using it in my vagina after I use it for anal.

          And the reason I don't want him to know is since it's a surprise for his birthday.
          Well it for sure not good to used a dildo that you been using anal then put inside your vagina. This could give you a serous infection not good. That go's for the same with your boy friend penis. So like Jen, mention get two dildo's you then don't have these issue so good luck with your fun play then.
          When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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          • LilahX
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            • Jan 2010
            • 291

            If you ensure your bowels have been emptied before you know you're gonna have some anal play it shouldn't be a problem. It does take some planning but it can ensure things stay clean. Yes, please do have an 'anal only' dildo that doesn't go anywhere else.

            If he's into the whole anal thing and your relationship is intimate and honest then the occasional bit of mess shouldn't be a big deal - it's goes with the territory. Good luck.

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            • SexyStories69
              Banned
              • Aug 2014
              • 5

              Originally posted by jen1447
              Ah I see. Well you definitely shouldn't switch without cleaning then. The way to overcome that tho is to have two dildos!
              Originally posted by Motorguy
              Well it for sure not good to used a dildo that you been using anal then put inside your vagina. This could give you a serous infection not good. That go's for the same with your boy friend penis. So like Jen, mention get two dildo's you then don't have these issue so good luck with your fun play then.
              Originally posted by LilahX
              If you ensure your bowels have been emptied before you know you're gonna have some anal play it shouldn't be a problem. It does take some planning but it can ensure things stay clean. Yes, please do have an 'anal only' dildo that doesn't go anywhere else.

              If he's into the whole anal thing and your relationship is intimate and honest then the occasional bit of mess shouldn't be a big deal - it's goes with the territory. Good luck.
              Alrighty then. I'll just go buy another one. I heard that you should clean your dildos and whatknot sometimes. Would using my shampoo on them be too bad?

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              • DreamP346
                • Oct 2011
                • 2053

                Originally posted by SexyStories69
                Alrighty then. I'll just go buy another one. I heard that you should clean your dildos and whatknot sometimes. Would using my shampoo on them be too bad?
                Just regular soap and warm water should do it. An anti-bacterial soap would be best.
                Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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                • Something_Awesome
                  Veteran Member
                  • Apr 2014
                  • 1219

                  Get a vixskin dildo. You can even boil those dildos. They also feel extremely authentic. Boiling it kills everything!
                  "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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                  • SexyStories69
                    Banned
                    • Aug 2014
                    • 5

                    Originally posted by Something_Awesome
                    Get a vixskin dildo. You can even boil those dildos. They also feel extremely authentic. Boiling it kills everything!
                    Oh, sounds fun!

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