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  • a_dub
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2011
    • 514

    frequency of sex

    How often does everyone have sex? I know there's variance but a good median frequency would be good to know. Is the assertion that married/long term couples have less sex true? I know that the two months I was in a relationship, we did 4-5 times a day but usually only on weekends since we didn't see each other during the week. It was awesome cuz I usually don't have the desire to maturbate that often but with sex even 5x wasnt enough.

    Note: having sex where the guy penetrates and cums counts as one time each time he cums. So 2 rounds in the morning and 2 more at night is 4 times and not 2.
  • Magnetism
    Veteran Member
    • Jan 2009
    • 1060

    Not married, but in relationships...it was every weekend when we saw each other. The work week gets busy, so we didn't see each other.
    "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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    • jen1447
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2013
      • 2380

      Each orgasm equals a sex? Then I have been known to have sex 25 times a day on occasion.
      [FONT=Trebuchet MS][COLOR="#800080"][B][SIZE=4]Woman trapped inside a woman's body![/SIZE][/COLOR][/B][/FONT]

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      • shoshannah
        Veteran Member
        • Nov 2010
        • 228

        We usually have sex a couple of times over the weekend (if you include Friday nights) and usually once or twice during the week (Monday-Thursday).

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        • calibri~
          Veteran Member
          • May 2014
          • 484

          It used to be about 2-3 times per weekend when we lived on opposite sides of the country and commuted at weekends.Now we live together it's more like once every 2-3 months..
          “...choose to believe in your own myth
          your own glamour
          your own spell
          a young woman who does this
          (even if she is just pretending)
          has everything....”
          [I]― Francesca Lia Block, How to (Un)cage a Girl [/I]

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          • cathy23
            Member
            • Oct 2011
            • 69

            since he only gets home on the weekends now it's usually on Friday night and Saturday.

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            • DreamP346
              • Oct 2011
              • 2053

              Research shows that married couples have more sex than single folks.
              Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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              • Farmer by trade
                Member
                • Mar 2014
                • 23

                sexless relationship is tough

                Originally posted by calibri~
                It used to be about 2-3 times per weekend when we lived on opposite sides of the country and commuted at weekends.Now we live together it's more like once every 2-3 months..
                Do you think the frequency of Sex and therefore intimacy has an impact on your relationship with SO. I read your other post and when I came to this one my first thought was that it must be hard to connect emotionally with infrequent sex.. In my marriage (25 yrs), I find that when we have more Sex we seem to miraculously connect better than when it has been less frequently. You imply that you wish it was more frequent. Is your SO not interested?
                Last edited by Farmer by trade; 08-15-2014, 11:55 PM.

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                • Farmer by trade
                  Member
                  • Mar 2014
                  • 23

                  To answer the question of this thread 2-3 times per week.

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                  • Motorguy
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                    • Mar 2014
                    • 3921

                    Originally posted by cathy23
                    since he only gets home on the weekends now it's usually on Friday night and Saturday.
                    Well Cathy you making up for the 5 days he is gone lol. That's not bad then.
                    When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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