[Magnetism]

Susan Sweetlove

It's hard to explain (especially those that don't get it), but here's my theory why people like to give oral sex:

1) The mouth is an erogenous zone. Giving oral sex is much like eating or licking our favorite food.
2) The idea of putting your partner's genitals in your mouth is a huge turn-on to the brain, especially if you find a penis/vagina arousing. If you're attracted to someone, how can you not want to ravish their body?
3) It was viewed as "dirty" act back in the day, which makes it more fun.
4) Being in control is a part of it.

It's just not about the man's pleasure. A person giving oral can get very excited just thinking or talking about it.

[Susan Sweetlove]

Magnetism,

Sweet that we share the same experience.

Perhaps the early exposure to oral helped shape us. I can't really explain or understand for myself why I love giving oral so much. Nothing excites me more than the idea of sucking a big hard penis. I find penises endlessly fascinating; the size, the shape, the way they are both rock hard and yet have that nice soft head and that cute little slit in the tip. I love feeling them in my hands and especially my mouth. They seem so powerful and potent yet when I suck them it seems like I'm in control of them and the guy is at my mercy. When I'm with a guy I can't until I'm stroking his **** with my hand while slurping on it with my wet mouth. Jesus, I'm getting wet just thinking about it. I have to stop.

[Magnetism]

SusanSweetlove-I wonder if being exposed to oral sex first is why we like it so much. Our early experiences shape what we like.

I also was 12 when I got exposed to porn, and I saw mostly women giving men oral sex. The image itself was a turn-on. Even though I was a virginal 12 year old, the thought became implanted in my head.

[Susan Sweetlove]

I began swallowing from the very first time. Having learned about sex by way of my parents porn tapes (showing my age); I thought taking it in the mouth was the only way the guy could cum. It wasn't until my fifth partner that I learned a guy could do it on his own inside me. By that time I was used to swallowing and thought it was just part of normal sex. Must have been pretty good at it because I found out my secret nickname in the community was cum ****************. I must say, learning about sex by watching porn was not the best idea.

Wow, Jill, I can really relate to this. I too first learned about sex from watching porn videos my mom stashed in her bedroom for watching with her boyfriends. I was 12 when I first discovered then (this was in the mid-90's). In fact the first time I masturbated was when I started watching these tapes. My mom never told me anything about sex (though I could certainly hear her from time to time with her boyfriends) so I learned about sex from watching porn. I too thought oral and anal sex were the norm but I also learned that this is what men really wanted. I got so turned on watching porn that it's what I wanted as well. I don't have any regrets nor do I feel like I was misled by porn. Rather, I believe it helped me understand how men enjoy sex and I could have the same enjoyment.

[jilljames8184]

I began swallowing from the very first time. Having learned about sex by way of my parents porn tapes (showing my age); I thought taking it in the mouth was the only way the guy could cum. It wasn't until my fifth partner that I learned a guy could do it on his own inside me. By that time I was used to swallowing and thought it was just part of normal sex. Must have been pretty good at it because I found out my secret nickname in the community was cum ****. I must say, learning about sex by watching porn was not the best idea.

[Motorguy]

Well there many porn movies made for this type of kinky of women who enjoy swallowing loads from strange men. Pretty much every adult book store or adult theater peeps booths that women you are enjoying doing just this it's something that really turns them on.

[Susan Sweetlove]

I did have an ex that didn't like woman swallowing semen. I feel some men can be prudish and uptight about sex as well, even though society stereotypes men as sex fiends. I like swallowing and facials simply bc I turns me on. It has nothing to do with being in love, or liking the person .

Your point is taken, though I've never personally met a guy who doesn't want a woman to swallow his semen. I agree about semen being a turn on. I can't explain but the warm feeling, taste and texture of semen in my mouth and on my face really excites me. And in response to cathy23's comment, I too have noticed a difference in the amount some guys ejaculate. Of course, all guys vary by age and depending on how often they ejaculate, but still some seem to produce more. One guy I knew always produced tons of the stuff. The color and viscosity also vary a lot. Some semen is watery and semi-clear while some is very thick, creamy and almost pearly white.

[Magnetism]

I did have an ex that didn't like woman swallowing semen. I feel some men can be prudish and uptight about sex as well, even though society stereotypes men as sex fiends. I like swallowing and facials simply bc I turns me on. It has nothing to do with being in love, or liking the person .

[cathy23]

I've mostly swallowed since I was a teenager. One thing I've noticed is some guys seem to ejaculate more than others, (lol).

[Susan Sweetlove]

I'm not sure that all women who find semen disgusting have a mental block. I truly believe that some genuinely find the taste and texture revolting.

I think a part of actually loving semen - well for me personally, is that I love my SO so much that I want as much of him as I can get but if I was to say, have a one night stand, there is no way I'd be interested in swallowing the man's semen or have him cum on my face. For me a lot of it has to do with the way I feel about my SO.

Sorry I don't really mean to judge others. I certainty don't want to be judged so I apologize if I seem to pass judgement. I just have this idea that too many women maybe tend to be to reserved and prudish about sex. It's like they think what a man wants is disgusting and they are not going to sink to a man's level of being an animal. Like women have to defend some sort of barrier against men's dangerous desires. I base this on what men have told me because they are pleasantly surprised to find I'm uninhibited and willing.

I just think more women would enjoy sex more if they approached it more like a man. Just my humble opinion.