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Well color me vanilla!
I have been with a fair sampling of women, from different countries and cultures, and have seen what they like and don't like. But by no means have I seen it all.
I have not been with a woman who objected to semen anywhere on her body. Some are not wild about it in their hair, but I have not seen any get upset about it either. Just not a fave.
A couple of GFs have done the massage semen on their breasts thing. I have never witnessed a "mad dash" to the shower, but both of the gs I particularly recall liking semen on their breasts like to have us shower together after awhile. I found that enjoyable.
I just might have to face the fact that LilahX is right. Much of what I see in porn I would hope is not mainstream, but it probably is. Take, for example, the scene of a woman kneeling, with a circle of half a dozen or so men around her, each masturbating and taking turns ejaculating into her mouth and on her face, with her licking it all up and swallowing loads from all those guys. I find nothing enticing about that. The same could be said of the woman with one guy's penis in her vagina, another guy in her anus and another on her mouth. I envy none of them. But that's just my outmoded "vanilla" nature manifesting itself.I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.Comment
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Other than vanilla being a bean and flavor (or flavour for those who dislike American English), both of which are darker in color, I agree completely with Babaoy with one exception. I am even more bland than vanilla -- perhaps skim milk. I do not get any heightened sexual pleasure from interrupting a perfectly wonderful BJ or fantastic intercourse to ejaculate anywhere else but it's intended place. I have had some very nice hand jobs, but she is too OCD not to have a towel around and I am generally allowing the endorphins to take over to even notice where the material has gone.Well color me vanilla!
I have been with a fair sampling of women, from different countries and cultures, and have seen what they like and don't like. But by no means have I seen it all.
I have not been with a woman who objected to semen anywhere on her body. Some are not wild about it in their hair, but I have not seen any get upset about it either. Just not a fave.
A couple of GFs have done the massage semen on their breasts thing. I have never witnessed a "mad dash" to the shower, but both of the gs I particularly recall liking semen on their breasts like to have us shower together after awhile. I found that enjoyable.
I just might have to face the fact that LilahX is right. Much of what I see in porn I would hope is not mainstream, but it probably is. Take, for example, the scene of a woman kneeling, with a circle of half a dozen or so men around her, each masturbating and taking turns ejaculating into her mouth and on her face, with her licking it all up and swallowing loads from all those guys. I find nothing enticing about that. The same could be said of the woman with one guy's penis in her vagina, another guy in her anus and another on her mouth. I envy none of them. But that's just my outmoded "vanilla" nature manifesting itself.
As for the reality of porn, I am sure that there is a position or two that could be adapted. However, as Baboy so eloquently writes, most should have a label "do not try this at home because it just won't (or can't or shouldn't) happen.""The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"Comment
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I have witnessed these activities many times Baboy and the women participating are just your ordinary, everyday middle-aged women who had their husbands present. Yes, it may be considered 'extreme' and definitely not everyone's taste - but it goes on. We're all different and personally as long as it's consensual for all parties - vive la difference.I just might have to face the fact that LilahX is right. Much of what I see in porn I would hope is not mainstream, but it probably is. Take, for example, the scene of a woman kneeling, with a circle of half a dozen or so men around her, each masturbating and taking turns ejaculating into her mouth and on her face, with her licking it all up and swallowing loads from all those guys.
I find nothing enticing about that. The same could be said of the woman with one guy's penis in her vagina, another guy in her anus and another on her mouth. I envy none of them. But that's just my outmoded "vanilla" nature manifesting itself.Comment
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