I haven't had sex in 2 and a half years since my ex boyfriend. I just recently started dating someone again and we tried to have sex but didn't get very far because I am SOO freakin tight that he couldn't even get the tip of his penis inside of me without me almost crying from pain. So then he fingered me, and doing that didn't hurt, it actually felt really freaking good. I don't know what to do about the whole sex thing because I am really freaking horny, and I really need/want sex but I'm so scared because it hurt SO BAD! Anyone have any advice or ideas?! Please!
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The vagina is made to stretch. So if you're getting adequate foreplay and you're well lubricated, the only thing I can think of is you're tensing up, causing the tightness. If he's able to finger you, with 2 fingers, I can't think of any reason the tip of his penis would cause you that much pain. Did you ever have this issue in the past? -
Have an orgasm before penetration, either via oral or manual. That is guaranteed to make sure you got enough foreplay and it will really relax you.Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)Comment
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I second dream! Having an orgasm before penetration works wonders. Your vagina is already loosened up."Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"Comment
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