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Personally, I don't always worry about the clit when doing analingus. If I do, I am not going back and forth between the anus and clit, but will use fingers to penetrate the vagina and massage the clit. Generally, I am spending a lot of time performing analingus (it's not just a 5 or 10 minute thing). I focus on it like a massage. Imagine you're a masseuse. Just have her lie down, relax, and spend time on it. At the end (whenever that is, but hopefully not soon) you can stimulate her clit/g spot using your hands or fingers.
I dunno, I never had the thought of it in a way where I mix things up by stimulating "this spot" and then "that spot." I always approached it with wanting to stimulate all spots at once. So if I am only stimulating one spot (say the anus), I can't stop doing it just because I want to stimulate another spot now. It can get weird when you're doing analingus and want to stimulate the g spot and clit. I've figured out a couple ways to use my fingers to do that (using only one hand), but probably need a little more practice."Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447Comment
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