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  • bootsie
    Senior Member
    • May 2013
    • 154

    She does it to me and yes I love it,but mostly I do it to her at the same time I am going down on her and she loves it that way.

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    • Something_Awesome
      Veteran Member
      • Apr 2014
      • 1219

      I once got some really good advice about analingus (keep in mind, I am relatively new to it), and it was to make sure you do big, full-contact licks (by full-contact, I mean have as much tongue make contact with the surface in a single lick as possible). It shows the person how much you adore them, and really allows you to taste them. It also feels better for the receiver.
      "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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      • BigRed
        Member
        • Aug 2014
        • 20

        A tip from me... Roll your tongue and insert it as if you were trying to F her butt with your tongue.

        Other than that I like to lick circles around it as I go... It's important to constantly return to the vagina every so often to maximize pleasure. Analinguis only feels so good, women still need clitoral stimulation.

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        • effy2014
          Veteran Member
          • Apr 2014
          • 1777

          Originally posted by BigRed

          Other than that I like to lick circles around it as I go... It's important to constantly return to the vagina every so often to maximize pleasure. Analinguis only feels so good, women still need clitoral stimulation.
          Both you and Bootsie need to have some caution going from anus to the V. Lots of V unfriendly bacteria in the anus that you do not want to transfer. JMHO.

          I do agree with your technique however BR. Analingus was the first time I ever got my SO to open up to "dirty talk" which made me even crazier. She has orgasmed from analingus alone (the brain is truly the best sex organ) but if she needs assistance, she can stroke her own clitoris.
          "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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          • atskitty2
            Assistant Admin
            • Aug 2013
            • 4467

            Thanks effy, but that's not just your honest opinion, that's a fact. You can transfer bacteria w/the tongue, fingers, penis, or other items moved from back to front, and the more frequently you do, the more chance there is that there'll be an infection-causing bug in the group Careful boys!

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            • Stillness
              WH Poster of the Month April 2017
              • Feb 2012
              • 3679

              Originally posted by effy2014
              Lots of V unfriendly bacteria in the anus that you do not want to transfer.
              But aren't there a lot of mouth unfriendly bacteria too?

              I just heard recently how the anus has to have sufficient nerve ending to distinguish between solid, gas, and liquid. I imagine that makes for a potentially pleasurable area to touch. I think there are just some pleasures that I'm willing to leave unexplored, though.
              "Those sowing seed with tears
              Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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              • LilahX
                Veteran Member
                • Jan 2010
                • 291

                Love receiving, love giving. Yes, very primal. Agree that Pjur lube is awesome.

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                • effy2014
                  Veteran Member
                  • Apr 2014
                  • 1777

                  Originally posted by Stillness
                  But aren't there a lot of mouth unfriendly bacteria too?
                  True, but it's always a matter of degrees. Though the risk is minimal, some STDs can be transferred via mouth to V. Never heard or read that the run of the mill mouth bacteria can inflict any disease.

                  The "normal" bacteria present in the anus can infect the V. That's why women are taught to wipe front to back (and us male diaper changers). If she wants more attention, it's 2 minutes with an alcohol-based mouthwash and good tooth brushing as well as general good hygiene before proceeding. It's worked for us.
                  "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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                  • Stillness
                    WH Poster of the Month April 2017
                    • Feb 2012
                    • 3679

                    No, I'm talking about the other way around. There's stuff down there fantastic for butts, but not so much for the upper GI, no?
                    "Those sowing seed with tears
                    Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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                    • effy2014
                      Veteran Member
                      • Apr 2014
                      • 1777

                      Originally posted by Stillness
                      No, I'm talking about the other way around. There's stuff down there fantastic for butts, but not so much for the upper GI, no?
                      Oh, gotcha. Never been an issue for me. I thought about it after the first time and read a lot of material. I am sure it's an issue if the partner is sick etc but my experience has been "never an issue" Of course, ymmv.
                      "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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