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I once got some really good advice about analingus (keep in mind, I am relatively new to it), and it was to make sure you do big, full-contact licks (by full-contact, I mean have as much tongue make contact with the surface in a single lick as possible). It shows the person how much you adore them, and really allows you to taste them. It also feels better for the receiver."Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447Comment
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A tip from me... Roll your tongue and insert it as if you were trying to F her butt with your tongue.
Other than that I like to lick circles around it as I go... It's important to constantly return to the vagina every so often to maximize pleasure. Analinguis only feels so good, women still need clitoral stimulation.Comment
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Both you and Bootsie need to have some caution going from anus to the V. Lots of V unfriendly bacteria in the anus that you do not want to transfer. JMHO.
I do agree with your technique however BR. Analingus was the first time I ever got my SO to open up to "dirty talk" which made me even crazier. She has orgasmed from analingus alone (the brain is truly the best sex organ) but if she needs assistance, she can stroke her own clitoris."The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"Comment
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But aren't there a lot of mouth unfriendly bacteria too?
I just heard recently how the anus has to have sufficient nerve ending to distinguish between solid, gas, and liquid. I imagine that makes for a potentially pleasurable area to touch. I think there are just some pleasures that I'm willing to leave unexplored, though."Those sowing seed with tears
Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126Comment
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True, but it's always a matter of degrees. Though the risk is minimal, some STDs can be transferred via mouth to V. Never heard or read that the run of the mill mouth bacteria can inflict any disease.
The "normal" bacteria present in the anus can infect the V. That's why women are taught to wipe front to back (and us male diaper changers). If she wants more attention, it's 2 minutes with an alcohol-based mouthwash and good tooth brushing as well as general good hygiene before proceeding. It's worked for us."The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"Comment
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Oh, gotcha. Never been an issue for me. I thought about it after the first time and read a lot of material. I am sure it's an issue if the partner is sick etc but my experience has been "never an issue" Of course, ymmv."The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"Comment
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