[jilljames8184]

Can being sexually satisfied help a married woman overcome a negative attitude? Anyone ever experienced this or know of any research about it?

[Something_Awesome]

I'm not a woman, but clarifying could help others answer, I guess. Do you mean a negative attitude you have? Or a negative attitude someone else (like your husband) has toward you?

[LilahX]

Do you mean a negative attitude about everything in general or negetive towards sex? Maybe you're talking about the cliched comment that a woman with a bad attitude just needs a good (**& ?

Having one part of your life be satisfying isn't really going to matter if other things in your life are c**p.

If you're talking about a negative attitude to sex - well being satisfied is wonderful, but there's more to sex than an orgasm. Sex begins way before the bedroom and a negative attitude to sex may have little to do with the actual sex.

Good luck working this one out.

[jilljames8184]

Not me. A young couple that my friends and I are friends with are getting a divorce after three years of marriage. The husband has been taking to my husband for the last couple of years about his wife's negative attitude toward everything. It seems she can never see the positive of anything. He told my husband she was like that while they were dating; and he thought he could change or her overcome it, but it didn't happen. She had ask me on several occasions during that time how to keep the bedroom activity at a high level. From the way she talked it has slacked off during the recent months and she was very disappointed. Just wondering if there was a connection. They are very well off financially and don't seem to have any worries. Thankfully there do not have any children yet to get messed up in a custody battle.

[Something_Awesome]

No, does not sound like sex will fix that. That's just her wiring. I've been around someone like that and it really grinds you down. Her attitude killed the sex. I don't think lack of sex sparked the attitude.

[Motorguy]

Not me. A young couple that my friends and I are friends with are getting a divorce after three years of marriage. The husband has been taking to my husband for the last couple of years about his wife's negative attitude toward everything. It seems she can never see the positive of anything. He told my husband she was like that while they were dating; and he thought he could change or her overcome it, but it didn't happen. She had ask me on several occasions during that time how to keep the bedroom activity at a high level. From the way she talked it has slacked off during the recent months and she was very disappointed. Just wondering if there was a connection. They are very well off financially and don't seem to have any worries. Thankfully there do not have any children yet to get messed up in a custody battle.

This was a couple should have never got married now we have two who will get divorce its so sad. Now you right thank God there's no children in this marriage. But no you can not change someone negative out put in life it's probably how she was raised by her own negative parents. The sign was written on the wall way before they was married. Oh well life not all bowls of cherries you sometimes you get the pits.

[kira]

A good sex life is the result of a good relationship. The reverse does not have as much impact. If the relationship is bad no amount of sex will fix it. Attempting to have more sex than one or both people actually feel like will probably just strain things more. They were doomed before they got started. You can't change people. There are the occasional major life changing events but otherwise people don't change just because you wish it.