[courtney]

If you have been with your BF for a while, then he already knows you are out of practice of being on top. When you start getting it on let him know that you want to try that, I'm sure he'll accept. Go slow, do what feels comfortable. It's my favorite position, but back in May I really did a number on my knee. Somehow I pulled it a direction it should not have gone and it just not stopped hurting when I kneel down.

If your guy loves you, he loves you the way you are, weight and all. Stepping outside your comfort zone is not easy but it's the only way. Good thing is, you trust him, and he trusts you. So I say get it, he will admire your forwardness.

Also! Liberator shapes can help with elevation as well as getting in positions that would otherwise be difficult. Pillows work too. But I love my Liberator shapes!

[alicelovesrain]

One bit of advice. Be careful about where you do it. Me and my wife don't really like our bed. I mean, it's fine for sleeping but we have better sex on a Futon, or just the floor with some blankets spread out. Something about how the bed absorbs energy, it's much easier to get leverage in certain positions when you're on a firmer surface.

OMG. That is a great idea! Thank you ^^

[Daffodils&Cream]

#1 position- on top!

Speaking from experience (both skinny, pregnant, and post-pregnant) it is the best position! I've gone through a number of body changes, but still find the best sex in this position- more control over movements + better orgasm. If you are self-concious of your tummy, just pull the sheet out from under you knees, and up around your tummy and hips. He can still hold your hips and stroke your legs, but you have the security of your stomach covered. If you are self-concious of your breasts- wear a really pretty bra- all the better to see it, than from that position. As far as leverage- pull your knees up so you are strattling his hips and keep most of your weight on your knees, for additional leverage & control you can lean forward to support yourself with your hands and/or arms: in such a position you can easily kiss and nuzzle his face & neck & he can show needed attention to your breasts- even if you still have your bra on. If you are still skeptical; candlelight or in a darkened room where you can just make out outlines makes it that much more intimate and stretch marks can't be seen...Enjoy!- the payoff it worth it!

[sunny_fantasy]

Help! Arms too short?

ok so how do I accomplish guiding him in - he says he wants me to 'help' when I'm on top and my arms are short.

Ontop of the weight, even when I'm alone, reaching the right spot can be hard...I'm just proportionately teeny, except for the fat!

he really likes to get in when he's not all hard yet...and he can't "see" with all the fat...

-Stuck