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  • CM2008
    Member
    • Feb 2008
    • 21

    Do most women masturbate? How often?

    Do most women masturbate? There are always threads about husbands masturbating, and how many women posting here are put off or alarmed by this.

    Do you masturbate?

    With the help of a vibrator?

    How often? daily? couple of times a month?

    Just curious.
  • Fallen1
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2007
    • 1937

    Unless I've missed something quite a few of the women that I've seen here are upset because they don't understand why their husbands would when they are ready/willing/able, in other words they feel their husbands are choosing it over having sex with them.

    I myself do on occasion, can't really put an number to it because it varies. My boyfriend asked me some time ago if I did and I told him sure. He also asked me if it was because of the differences in our libidos in which I answered yes, he understood. I am one of those females that wants it 24/7.
    There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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    • macybelle
      Member
      • Feb 2008
      • 53

      I did as a teenager but until recently I was not into masturbation. If you consider rubbing when your making out with a guy masturbation then yes I did that but to touch myself no. Not since high school and I didn't touch myself back then either. I didn't know that women used their hands to finger themselves and touch their clitoris until recently either. I was so clueless.

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      • Little
        • Feb 2007
        • 4329

        Twice a day, usually, often with a vibrator but sometimes not.
        But I don't have access to my sweetheart, so if it seems a lot, that's why.
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        • delicious105
          Member
          • Aug 2007
          • 28

          I am single, stressed and waiting to start a new job so the frequency of self loving has gone up. I will also indulge when I am bored.

          With my hormones jumping all over the place, I find it easier to go with it rather than fight it.

          I also wanted to assuage my guilt, so I did some research as to the history of masturbation and read some articles regarding older women and the benefits of staying sexually active. I may be celibate, but I do still have those sexual urges. Having my insides dry up and shrivel is a horrible thing to contemplate!

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          • Schnazzy
            Member
            • Oct 2007
            • 38

            more often than not... despite having an active and fulfilling sex life with a partner, but if he is at work or away for a couple of nights... i gotta do it myself, and i am good at it too...
            i have never questioned if it was 'too much' or 'abnormal', after all...who sets the guidelines? we are all individuals and what is normal for one isn't for another.

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            • mekmek22
              Junior Member
              • Feb 2008
              • 2

              yes I do maybe 4 times a week 2 help me sleep, and also i have recently become single, and was use to having sex only twice a week, but enen then I still did nonthing wrong with satisfiying yourself. p.s. and sometimes with vibrator and sometimes not

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              • Rose5
                Member
                • Jan 2008
                • 42

                I don't know if most women masturbate. It's not something I've ever brought up in a conversation. I do, maybe a couple of times a week, give or take. If I had more privacy it might be more often.
                CM, you didn't mention if you do or not.

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                • stillkickin
                  Junior Member
                  • Feb 2008
                  • 9

                  I think over a lifetime it comes and goes at different intervals for different reasons, it's all fine and depends on your needs and situation.

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                  • AfterChildren
                    Member
                    • Jan 2008
                    • 33

                    Whenever the "mood" strikes me, or if my hubby isn't willing when i am ready... If he comes in during, it sometimes turns him on, sometimes hurts his feelings... But masturbation is a regular thing on my part... : }

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