[CHANDLERS WISH]

Straigh, lesbian, bisexual - the label isn't important. If you like watching women - great. You might even consider actually having a 3-some, but see other threads for all of the potential pit falls.

I don't think that i am the later two, however, i have written a fantasy for my guy, that pertained another women, only i immediately said it would be tame because i wouldn't go there.

So "she' this woman was there purely for me to see him do it, as if it was me, so i could watch?

YES, i can comprehend the "pitfalls" he's of and doing and saying it's your fault because.

I don't think i am bi but today i had a 60 min massage by a chinese lady and i am convinced she put her "chest in my face" so to speak , touched my face seductively or am i just missing my man? During the massage i was visualising ( as he loves massaging his woman, shoulders first to relax then upper legs, well we know why) but i don't know i felt she was well coming on and i have to say, i still don't think i would but i wondered?

After, i looked at my body, and thought, well a man has his penis and balls and that's his excitment, we are just so different, we have our breasts, our neck, our face, our down there, i mean we have so many sensual parts of our body so is it therefore not an understanding that a woman senses that? She may have very well like the "white woman" she may very well have been trying to "please me in massage" i go there often but it did make me wonder i must admit...

I am, not bi, but deep inside well, maybe it's about, "she' is not a man so what if? Bugger maybe i am a closit woman! I don't think so i am just a sensual sexual woman and i thought that's all.

I agree, don't go there in a relationship.................... it was just an interesting experience i guess as women's bodies in my opinion offer more to explore and i am at my sexual peak so why wouldn't i think?

That all, bye. x

[macybelle]

I would not consider myself at all bi but I do like watching women getting it on when I watch porn. Doing this has helped me tell my husband exactly what I want him to try. I don't think it makes you bi.