[Fallen1]

CW,

I think what you are looking for, is to understand that it's not really about technique, it's about how the woman feels about doing it, what secrets she reveals about herself in the act. Men remember the women who just loved to pleasure them, for their own reasons. They mention this in "The Joy of Sex," how a man's penis is almost like a shared thing, how the woman treats her man's penis like it's her possession.

If you've ever seen the movie "sex, lies, and videotape" there's a very nice scene where Laura San Giacomo is describing the first time she fondled a man, how she got so turned on that she lost track of the fact that there was a guy attached to it. What you are aiming for is that level of erotic connection. If you can achieve that the technique will just follow naturally.

If there is such a thing as a "Perfect BJ" what's going on is that the woman's mouth and the man's penis are carrying on their own private conversation. I don't know how else to describe it. The word "perfect" is a misnomer because it's never the same twice.

I myself have always thought, and posted on another older thread that I think it is not so much how/what a girl does but with what attitude she does it. I would tend to believe that if she is half a*s doing it because she isn't really into it then it wouldn't be so pleasant no matter what she did. On the flip side if she really gets into it I would tend to believe that would make it more enjoyable.

Me, I like it!

[shweedart]

BJ answer

I asked a similar question in a post and I ended up replying to myself!!
this is what worked for us

Ive found the answer!
yesssss
mints! if i eat strong mints before giving head he loves it! its like tingle lube without my face getting greasey! brilliant, tastes good too!

and aswell if he's sat on the bed and im on my knees I let him put it between my boobs and push them against it...that +mints+different speeds+ball rubbing=best blowjob ever apparently...
its great making him fall in love with me that bit more :P
ooooh yeah! Also if i run my nails down the front of his legs or down his bumcheeks

and aswell the mint thing has inspired him also! afterwards he suggested that maybe he tried it on me



one word :

RESULT!!!!

[daniee.l]

can i jus ask do all men do this or is it jus my bf last nite it was like he was tryin 2 have sex wiv my mouth!!! he was movin my head so fast i was gettin dizzy lol i dont no if he was jus realy horny an we couldnt move on to sex coz im on my monthly he doesnt usualy do it that bad. does any 1 else have this problem wiv ther man. please reply coz if no one else does this then nxt time he does im gona bite it of lol!!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

can i jus ask do all men do this or is it jus my bf last nite it was like he was tryin 2 have sex wiv my mouth!!! he was movin my head so fast i was gettin dizzy lol i dont no if he was jus realy horny an we couldnt move on to sex coz im on my monthly he doesnt usualy do it that bad. does any 1 else have this problem wiv ther man. please reply coz if no one else does this then nxt time he does im gona bite it of lol!!

That's funny, don't bite it of!!! NO.......

Ah, i think he was ultra horney to be honest, misses you obviously

CW

[Doctor jack]

Fellatio

Hi there,

The fact that i had been told to abstain from ejaculating for three days only hightened my arousal. Jet black hair, pillar box red lips, matching nails, and glasses. Kneeling right in front of me. Didnt touch me for ten minutes, just soft words, teasing nails, and wet kisses all over my thighs.

played the piano with her red nails up and down the whole shaft watching it twitch and leak. really wet kisses all over my balls causing me to moan, bites and scratches all over my taught buttocks, followed by light slaps to my erection from side to side.

[downhill from here, snipped by the mod]

hope that was of some use miss.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Mmm Dr, Jack....

Interesting "fantasy" really....

However, the thing that doesn't get me at all, is the bit about what type of woman you visualised her to be a s..............

Well, you may need to consider and call her your "princess" maybe next time...

Your woman, or what ever.

Personally, that did nothing for me as a result, i lost it at hello.

CW

[Just-a-regular-guy]

Mixture - reality and fantasy

Good Doctor....
While I enjoyed reading your post... and can relate to some of it.... I think the average reader here will have some difficulty with it... it sounds to porno.... I think the flavor of it is good... she really wants to please you.... that's the most important thing.... it starts with attitude and procedure then follows.... the more she likes it and gets into it the more she will want to explore more "radical" or hot or erotic or raw ways to get the job done.....

Keep posting though......

[Hystorm]

Yea, next we are going to hear about the Love Barrel!

Take it outside, as the Aussi's and Brits say, preferably in the bin.

[C]

A hot sexual act like this starts before the lust begins......It could be over lunch with a hint of what is to come.....A sexual licking of the your lips and holding your mouth slightly open as you remind him of how much you loved the movie "Deep Throat".........A licking of his neck as he holds the car door open for you....These are the passions that keep a marriage hot.......These are the things that he remembers when another woman tempts him from a motel where she is waiting.....Or a nurse inviting your man for a drink after class....These suggestive innuendos must never stop.........It is the blueprint for a marriage where the heat and the passion never dies.....Just my thoughts....Take care, Caroline

[Just-a-regular-guy]

Yes yes yes

Caroline you are so on target with this one!!!
We - husbands and wives - need to think hot, act hot, and be hot to our spouse.... otherwise someone else might..... as just a regular guy I can tell you that I'll carry the thought of my wife sucking me all day long - no matter how bad of a day I'm having - just by her suggestive eating of a banana at the breakfast table at 6AM..... it works!!!

Likewise, I nibble her neck and whisper a plan in her ear as I leave for work..... this definately primes the pump - for both of us.....