[CHANDLERS WISH]

This thread has really taken a turn to drugs or no drugs. So to get back to the original poster:

shweedart

I am a guy and would love to try this with my wife, but I haven't tried it because..... I'm not sure how she'd react. Probably due to the fear that she would get offended or upset.

I guess I'm too much of a gentleman, Now you've got me wondering...Perhaps my wife would like this. To reverse your question "How would I as a man know whether she'd like this?"

Well i guess if she did some of the things that has been suggested you would know.

But how would you be able to instigate it yourself to gage the reaction?

If she has a scarf in her wardrobe why not take it out and feel it and look at it, when she asks you what you are doing, why not just say i was wondering that's all and hold on end in your left hand and the other in your right hand and pull at it so it is more like a string, see what she says, or be bold and walk up to her, slowly and blindfold her and see her reaction. If she jumps around and carrys on, you can always then say, well it may be interesting don't you think if you can't see me, give her a minute to think?

Sometimes the smallest things can be the most exciting and then lots of new thoughts come into it and a woman is more game from that "smallest gesture"...

[Hystorm]

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Or you could do something totally crazy like....ask him!
The odds that he will be offended or something are so small that you will be fine! Believe it or not, we naturally prefer to pound away but have been trained to do otherwise.

Good luck.

[Mourningman]

Because I have a witty to warped sense of humor I once found and copied the Monty Python song of "sit on my face and tell me that you love me.... I'll sit on your face and tell you I love you...life would be fine if we'd both 69" dadada you get it and played it to my wife.Some years ago I must add. it did not work it was not subtle but at least I tried. And you can't blame a guy for tryin'. Maybe this would work for you.