[C]

When I saw this thread, I decided to stay away from it..As you can see, the body is weak.....Probably because of the multitude of women that have written me both wanting men and sorry that they failed their man years ago. Some of their ex-husband's have taken new wives. Many women are looking for younger men, any kind of man. They are now sexually hungry. They have finally grown up...Many are so desperate that they go on the Internet. I believe the figure is three women to every man in computer land searching the airwaves to mate...Let's face it, it is a man's world... All looking for love. So I hear two tales of love...I have had doctor's tell me after they asked about our sexuality, of how many women come to them that no longer want to be sexual. They husband's have gotten Viagra and they don't want anything to do with it...Many couples have separate bedrooms after 45. Many, many women just plain hate sex and many have not, nor will ever know, the erotic passion of the sexual love that I live in.

The reason I held back on this thread is because of the letters and knowledge that I have had from women. Sure there are many bad marriages and stories of men that have gained 100 pounds and are a turn off, but also many of women that are just plain tired of sex. Many of these women will be tired now, but get to the other side of menopause and find quite a difference in themselves sexually. BUT when their vagina dies off, and is no longer brought to life and loved like it should be, and they forget the taste of man, a very important part of themselves dies...Sex is but a memory and when it just may resurface as they age, they will then wonder, why did I do that. I have heard this story too....

I cannot go into abuse because at this point I can't remember if we were talking about the first poster or the second. BUT I do know one thing...Unless I said what I said today to some women out in the world of the Internet, I would be shunning my duty as speaking for women and should shut my site down...I am sure I did not make any friends, but so goes life....At the end of the day like the person who argues with me, we both stand tall.. She happy for what she has said, and me happy for what I have stated......With that I will leave this thread.....I have this hunk that is calling me.....Take care,..Caroline

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I was just replying to another thread, and i mentioned "friendship". To many relationships do in fact go past the honeymoon stage and turn it into "friendship" and then can't find their way back, or don't want to.. You do know that i met my man on an internet dating site? lol. I was viewing every avenue, but to be honest, i was only on it for a short time and only to get myself back out there at least dating, to dress up again and communicate again, as that's a bit difficult once married and then out there again. I do understand your point of people going on their for "love", " i am seeking my soul mate, you must love travel, etc", well um, so i MUST be this or that? So i do see that side, just funny when you say that in my circumstances. Yes, it is hard C when you understand vividly and help so many and speak here about "turn it back around" get over the friendship side, get into the wild side of that she devil, inner child go, don't stop..... But, they have to be able to listen. You must stop telling me that your going and why, i'm getting jealous and i don't hold that side to me at allllll... 6 weeks to go. CW...

[Greydog72]

WOW

Thanks again for all the help and responses. All of them are very much appreciated and welcomed.

You guys are all wonderful. I may never meet you, but I will know that there is caring people in this world and your replies all make me feel great.

I'm not going to give you details about what has happened, but I will let you know that we had a big blow up last night and a lot of feeling, emotions, and other things came out (not sexual...LOL). What I can tell you is that we are working forward again. I haven't received a kiss, like the one I got last night, in a very long time. My toes curled again..

Its funny how sometimes the unknown places you visit will have a giant impact on your life.

CW, lee, and Caroline thanks for listening(reading) and responding.

Hope you all get what you want from life and stay strong.

Thanks again, Dog

[Greydog72]

by the way Caroline, I love your website

[rebellee47]

Glad to hear there has been some progress in the direction you are wanting things to go. Listen to Both CW and Caroline they have alot of knowledge and pick there brains thru these threads the way I am trying to do to make things better in my own life both in a loving relationship with my wife and a better sexual one. Good Luck Greydog 72 , I Hope the Very Best for You and Yours!! ....Lee

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Gee, passionate kissing is my weak spot Now i just have to remember how i do that? lol. Well there goes that little word again "passion".... If you have "passion" then you can have it all..... Best wishes CW

[C]

by the way Caroline, I love your website

Thank you so much. Have your wife read it too...Just may get her back on the right path.....Actually I think she is already....I finally did the hot blog today....Between you, I and this computer.....I think you will do just fine....Much love to you...Caroline .

[jns]

I hope all has gone well for you the last 2+ years, Greydog.