[angelahadley]

me and my partner have been together for 30 years and he wants a 3 some but im a young looking 48 and iv never done anything like this before and i would limke to try it with no strings attached, but with a girl what do u think

[CHANDLERS WISH]

me and my partner have been together for 30 years and he wants a 3 some but im a young looking 48 and iv never done anything like this before and i would limke to try it with no strings attached, but with a girl what do u think

You've obviously discussed it, i supose if that was me, i'd be asking myself, why he wants it, ie) is there things missing so he wants to add flavour, and why you want it ie) for you or for him and then lastly, what ramifications if any there may be after..

Can you cope with that thought after of him being with her, another woman in front of you, will it lead to more requests and what if you went ok, well that was that, not interested to go there again, and will there be even more different requests?

Maybe you can experiement alternatively with watching together on a TV screen and trying all new things you've never tried before if you answer, well yes i would be worried after, or yes, i would not want to do it again....

But if you both desire it badly and want it and your sex life is terrific and there is a lot of mutual trust in your lives and bond, then experimenting in my books is just that...and ok, i wrote a fantasy of such recently to my guy, told him i wouldn't do much though not to expect that but i know it is a fantasy for men...

Whether later in life i would then do that? I can't answer...

Hard call really.

CW

[C]

I think boredome has set in and after this sexual venture your life will never be the same.....Think wisely.....

[cwx9b8]

My husband has been asking for a 3 some with another women for 10 years now I think I could do it if it weren't for the fact he would be sleeping with another women. What if he wanted her more than you? Its possible it could be a one time thing but somehow I doubt it

[C]

My husband has been asking for a 3 some with another women for 10 years now I think I could do it if it weren't for the fact he would be sleeping with another women. What if he wanted her more than you? Its possible it could be a one time thing but somehow I doubt it

I once talked with a woman who did this and she said that sexually they never were the same.....She was turned on by the woman and was excited by watching him make love to her...Eventually they got into bigger party sex....I don't know if they are still together....

[lexi]

If you haven't ever even tried a threesome then you really have no frame of reference to talk about them IMO.

I have had one and it was good. I really enjoyed it and would do it again. However you need to make the informed decision for yourself. Like CW said things can go sour afterwards and you need to look at all the consequences both good and bad.

I had a wonderful experience and it was because I trusted both of the men who were involved and they both wanted to do it as much as I did. I would do it again tomorrow in a heartbeat. Yea not everyone has the same experience and it doesn't always turn out this way but it can.

[commonsense]

me and my partner have been together for 30 years and he wants a 3 some but im a young looking 48 and iv never done anything like this before and i would limke to try it with no strings attached, but with a girl what do u think

Lust can never be quenched. This would just be the beginning. He will want something else after this.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

If you haven't ever even tried a threesome then you really have no frame of reference to talk about them IMO.

I have had one and it was good. I really enjoyed it and would do it again. However you need to make the informed decision for yourself. Like CW said things can go sour afterwards and you need to look at all the consequences both good and bad.

I had a wonderful experience and it was because I trusted both of the men who were involved and they both wanted to do it as much as I did. I would do it again tomorrow in a heartbeat. Yea not everyone has the same experience and it doesn't always turn out this way but it can.

Lexi, that's not fair, two men? That can be a fantasy of mine while i sleep tonight... Just a fantasy.......

[rebellee47]

Lexi,

If it is not to personel were you married to one of them? I can see a 3some without marriege but I am married and thought about it. from all I have read 3somes never seem to work for married people one or the other eventually tires of it and the other doesnt and jelousy sets in. Listening to others it is a Pandora's box for married couples????..Lee

[lexi]

Not married to either of them. However one of the men in the three some with me has parents who are often involved in threesomes and they have the best relationship of any of my friends parents. They however are very open sexually and have no jealousy issues. It isn't a married vs single thing it is a personal thing that you need to make sure you are ready for but you really can't say that it is bad if you have never done it.