[Mourningman]

After reading a thread someone said a woman or a man who doesn't want or need sex is because of bad sex.What would be considered bad sex? I thought a woman is cerebral therefore bad sex equals bad everthing else? Take me on a Magical Mystery tour.

[Little]

When the man only does it for himself and doesn't care whether or not his girl has an orgasm ...
I'd call that terrible sex.
Unfortunately, there ARE some people like that (male or female) who don't even try for the other person.

[Fallen1]

When the man only does it for himself and doesn't care whether or not his girl has an orgasm ...
I'd call that terrible sex.
Unfortunately, there ARE some people like that (male or female) who don't even try for the other person.

Agreed.

I was in a relationship (married) like that. Never was there any foreplay, it was basically jump on do his thing which was less that 5 minutes and jump off and then he would say to me "sorry you didn't get anything out of it, maybe next time" then he would turn over and go to sleep.

[rebellee47]

Man!! What a bummer!! My wife would kill me if i did that!! Worst sex I have ever had was wonderful, i have only been with my wife and we have foreplay always. I agree with you all that the " wham bam thank you man or mam" would be terriblbly disappointing sex for me or my wife !!

[Fallen1]

Man!! What a bummer!! My wife would kill me if i did that!! Worst sex I have ever had was wonderful, i have only been with my wife and we have foreplay always. I agree with you all that the " wham bam thank you man or mam" would be terriblbly disappointing sex for me or my wife !!

Yes "wham bam than you mam" was basically what it was and it was terribly disappointing. Foreplay did not exist. The entire 17 years we were married he never gave me oral, as a matter of fact never touched my privates once. We never did anything but the missionary position .... but I loved him.

You better believe that now I'm making up for all that I missed over those years.

[Hystorm]

Go Fallen!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Okay, truly, it's one thing to on occassion have a 30 second down there first but to never get your breast touched, or be kissed?

AH, 7 years later, if you can't kiss or touch me, get out of my bed i say, because, well I can Well i will be saying.....

CW

[Fallen1]

Okay, truly, it's one thing to on occassion have a 30 second down there first but to never get your breast touched, or be kissed?

AH, 7 years later, if you can't kiss or touch me, get out of my bed i say, because, well I can Well i will be saying.....

CW

Well I did receive a kiss every now and then. But as for the rest I kid you not, the man might as well had a blow up doll. Many a night I would fall asleep with tears in my eyes wondering "is this all"? See, I married him young, I had just turned 19 and I knew no better.

[SinisterUrge]

During rapid and deep penetration the penis accidently leaves the vagina and is slightly off-target on the return.

A scenario I call "The Cap'n Crunch".

It is very bad sex indeed.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well I did receive a kiss every now and then. But as for the rest I kid you not, the man might as well had a blow up doll. Many a night I would fall asleep with tears in my eyes wondering "is this all"? See, I married him young, I had just turned 19 and I knew no better.

You know what Fallen1, i am just sooooo pleased that we can work it all out later in life and "get it big time" and of course make up for all that lose

I certainly will be and the poor man will have to work hard, keep up and then some, but then if it is this man, no problem, he did it for 17 years in his marriage, he knows the score....


Now to have another 12 months without a kiss, passionate one, well 6 weeks to go...lol... Yes, i can comprehend the tears, in the end, i slept in the bedroom for 12 months with the dogs and him on the couch and dreamt about intimacy and touching and i was 43, go figure....

Men kiss your women i say passionately it's a real turn on for the rest to follow!!!!

CW