[muffin70]

well this happened about 16yrs?ago... I was single and was renting a 2 bedroom house and had a female flatmate / room mate. She was younger than me (20?)
Anyway we didn't have a lot to do with each other - she paid her rent and bills on time and was a clean flatmate. I didn't find her attractive and hsvomg sex with her was the last thing on my mind. Anyway she used to go out most weekends and get drunk - sometimes worse than others. One morning I was up at 3am to watch a rugby match (NZ All Blacks playing Wales at Cardiff arms stadium) and my flatmate comes in totally drunk.... I knew she was drunk because she said she wanted to watch the rugby and she's told me before she doesn't like rugby... then 10 minutes later she starts to take her clothes off and touch herself and asks me to f**k her.... I told her she needs to go to her room and sleep it off, but she was insistant she needed me to f**k her right there and then...kept saying 'give me your c**k.... give it to me now'!
All I wanted to do was watch the game, so I picked her up and took her to her room where she still insisted that I f**k her right now...... so I figured if I didn't do as the asked she would annoy me for the rest of the night, so I went into my room grabbed a condom, and went to her toom and gave it to her as she asked!
then afterwards I went out to watch the rest of the game, then took her clothes into her room and left them at the end of her bed.

later that day about 1:30pm she surfaces and goes in the kitchen to make a drink... and she's looking at me funny then says "I had a weird dream last night that you slept with me...." but it must have been a dream because you're not my type sorry" I just smiled......

[Lexhill]

Thanks for that response, Lex. The woman that was repulsive...you say you wish her the best so I take it that you just found her physically repulsive and not from a personality standpoint?

Well she was actually just a substitute teacher at my school. Had her once. She was a OK teacher and I have no view on her personality at all. she can be the sweetest person ever. So there was actually no reason what so ever for my physical response. But it happened anyway. Never experienced it any other time. It did however come inn handy for me as 16 years old boy, as I had quite a few rouge erections. A nice way to instantly get it down.

[Lovcookie]

Borderline attraction I would call it. She was a co-worker at the time. Not ugly, average looking face and had a Ok body but I never looked at her with any kind of attraction in mind. I knew she liked me and would let me know it. Then during one company party she basically asked me if I wanted to have sex with her. I would say then she was a bit drunk. I just deflected it that night. Months later she needed help moving. At this point I had not had sex in months and I did not have a gf. After the last load she had a beer in her hand and handed me one too. After some chit chat she downed the beer. She went to her room had changed into a short jean short from her jeans. Her legs were not bad, butt was a bit bigger then I go for and had more tummy then I would be attracted too but not a turn off. Even at that moment I was not thinking about attraction or sex. We had a only a beer each so not drunk (don't think she was either). She asked me when was the last time I had sex. I told her and she said it was over a year since she had sex with a man. She moved in and started to pull my shirt off. At this point I thought what the heck why not and she is basically begging for me to do her. I could not say no and found myself doing her. I felt good about it at the time but after it was like now I have to deal with this. It was only time we had sex. Never told this to anyone. What I do remember during removing our clothes was she kept saying Oh, my god, oh, my god and entire time. Make me think she was in real need for some attention.

[jns]

Now I'll relate this little bit
That happens more than I'd like to admit
Late at night she knocks on my door
She's drunk again and looking to score

Now I know I should say "No"
But that's kind of hard when she's ready to go
I may be dumb but I'm not a dweeb
I'm just a sucker with no self esteem

"Self Esteem" The Offspring

[atskitty2]

That's awesome jns!
Wish I had the like button on my phone!
Heard that song just this week.

[Texasred]

Totally sober?
No
But there was an occasion (many years ago): I'd had several drinks but spread out over the course of a long evening, out with a large group that I frequently met up with on Friday night after work. We'd played volleyball, then went to a bar to listen to some music, dance a little. The person I rode with left early, and I was offered a ride home by a woman I'd always been friendly with but not at all attracted to. When we got in her car it was really late, she told me she lived very near - my place was 30 miles way - and she offered to let me stay at her place and drive me home first thing in the morning. Which sounded fine: she told me she had a spare bedroom. But when we got to her place, she said "Why don't you just sleep in my room?" and I couldn't think of a good reason not to. There was still no attraction there, but once we were under the covers, and naked, and the room was dark, I found my body responding just as if she had been movie-star good looking, and we both enjoyed it. And the next morning, it worked again.
Frankly, I was a bit surprised. It occurred to me much later that the evening had gone exactly as she planned...
Not my finest moment, I thought at the time, and this isn't a story I've ever told before.
She and I never got together again, and never mentioned it again.

[Motorguy]

Has anyone here ever had sex with someone - while sober - with a person they were NOT attracted to? Is it impossible to do?

Absolutely you can, not all men or women are walk way models or GQ hulks. Some of us are not very fortune to be great looking as my wife says it's what inside you that counts. That beauty is only skin deep.

[caster]

Physically it's not a problem, but if you're a woman it can be psychologically hard on you... Men can just ********** everything they see but women can't.

Women need a reason for sex, men just need a place.

[Motorguy]

Now I'll relate this little bit
That happens more than I'd like to admit
Late at night she knocks on my door
She's drunk again and looking to score

Now I know I should say "No"
But that's kind of hard when she's ready to go
I may be dumb but I'm not a dweeb
I'm just a sucker with no self esteem

"Self Esteem" The Offspring

So JNS who is the artist of those lyrics of that song. I love to hear the whole song it sounds pretty funny.

[jns]

"Self Esteem" is the name of the song and "The Offspring" are the group that wrote and sang it.