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Fellatio after intercourse
Hello everyone, it's been well over a year since I've been on this site but I know it used to be pretty active. Hope everyone is doing well and ready for the holidays. A topic has come up for me that never really came to mind in the past. I was wondering how common it was for the ladies to give oral immediately following penetration prior to "wiping it off"? I don't really have a lot of experience in the matter but know that my ex used to do it but my current is repulsed by it. I know that it's personal preference and there are hygiene matters that contribute but do more women do it or not do it is what I'm wondering. Thanks everyone :-) -
kitty, I've given a woman oral immediately after having intercourse with her. Then given her a wet kiss. And, of course, shared food.
I wonder how many guys have allowed a woman to give them a wet kiss after taking care of them.
I suspect that there is a double standard.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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I thought so too jns, but I expected it to be more likely the women were more accommodating!
I've done this, but I admit the first time or two, it did make me a bit squeamish. But I've yet to have a partner who was willing to do the same.
The "opportunity" doesn't arise every day tho, of course.Comment
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I gave oral after blowing my load in her for the first time a year or 2 ago. I was quite hesitant at first to do it for the first time. The idea came after online search, where I found out that many girls liked it. So I thought I would try it out. My wife did not know anything before it happend, but she was very positive about it afterwards as she said it was new and exciting, and that she thought it was hot. So I've done it several times after that as well, and she seems to like it very well. She seems to enjoy that she can have the final pleasure of the sex act.
For me I've found out it's all about personal restrictions and when I finally tried it. I actually did not mind. Again I would love for her to swollow, and how could I want that if I can't touch my own sperm with my mouth. When going down on her I can play with her juices with no problem as well.Comment
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The woman I'm dating still does this. When she senses I'm ready to cum, she'll finish me with head. Many times she'll want me to cum on her, especially her ****. She likes it on her face, too. She just loves cum.
Many years ago, when we were dating, she told me that she was very sexually active during her college years. She went off of the pill because it made her gain weight. She had to come up with ways of avoiding getting knocked up. One of her techniques was to give her boyfriends head instead of cumming inside of her. She perfected sensing when a guy was ready to cum, have him pull out of her, and finish him with head. That way, they were both happy. She used other techniques, but giving head was the method she seemed to like most.Comment
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Beeni,
It's not something I'd do, but if it's something that you want to do, I think your wife would allow it.
As long as its not degrading or intentionally demeaning (dirty talk that's for sexual stimulation only) if both partners willingly agree, git er dun.
BTW, for clarification, my g/f wants me to call her everything but human during sex. She loves graphic sex talk, especially involving an imaginary other dude doing her at the same time. Out of a bedroom, she reverts to queen, and not porn queen.Comment
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My SO and I have no problem giving oral after sex. We're constantly sharing body fluid and neither of us is bothered at all by it. If anything it just makes our bond even more closer and special as we aren't put off at all my each other. I think you have to really be into your partner to do it.Comment
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