[Stillness]

I went for the bad girl once. She spoiled me in the bedroom - and not necessarily in a good way. It was awesome while I was with her, but since she was my first, I thought that all women were that way. I wonder if I'd be more content with my good girl if I'd never met the bad one.

Also, the bad girl came with a lot of drama, craziness, and heartache. That lovin' though!

[rcoreyus]

atskitty2: I think the same applies to women, and my apologies for making the original post from only one gender's point of view. Demanding selfish women also seem to get what they want, nice women don't. My wife's mother treated her husband horribly. He would do absolutely anything to avoid upsetting her. I was the typical combination of complaining, crying and claiming ill-health. I remember one Christmas where she was sulky and crying at him on Christamass eve with no explanation. Finally let him now what had upset her: She knew he had bought her a beautiful piece of jewelry for Christmass, but (without telling him) had been hoping to wear it for Christmass eve dinner - since he didn't somehow magically figure it out, she made him suffer..... My wife sadly is also very controlling, very selfish. From my point of view, I'm easy going, it never seems worth fighting each little battle. In each case I don't really care, but in the end I get treated like a doormat. The woman I know who is the nicest, most generous is the one who is treated terribly by her husband. She feels she has to be a dutiful wife - does everything she can to make him happy. He stopped working, has girlfriends on the side etc. She is miserable but for some reason puts up with it. So I think it goes both ways. Selfish people win. They may be surrounded by people who dislike them, but they get what they want. For me its not worth it - the friendship and respect of the people around me matters a lot. Separately, I think that the "bad girl" really covers two things. I think what men want is a "bad girl" in the sense of a sexually adventurous girl, which sadly society has often labeled "bad". I don't think many men want girls who actually behave badly.