Um, anyway........
That's why it's down to knowing the person, some people would take that VERY VERY badly.
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Yeah... I tricked my ex when I hadn't seen her for two weeks, sent her out to meet me at the station, and when she left I was behind a van outside her house, let myself in with my key, hid my stuff and told her the train was delayed. When she walked back into her room I was behind the door. She nearly hit the ceiling when I grabbed her - let out one hell of a scream (actually really made me think that raping someone would be harder than you'd think) - lucky her flatmate didn't come down to investigate... There was something rather nice about a kiss hello after I'd abused her....
Um, anyway........
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True, couldn't agree more, it would scare the **** out of anyone, however, i believe you just told me one of your fantasies, lol, only for real...
It's the un-known with your partner that is "the most exciting" i think, the non-expected but simple, raw passion, right there and then, yet not seeing it coming....
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Many people find many different things a turn on that other people think are abnormal. Eh, maybe not so much abnormal as so far out there different from what is widely and sociataly accepted. Alternative.
Taking a **** on someone or in their mouth... EWW but there are people with this fetish. There are alot of alternative sort of underground things that most people look at and are just shaking their heads with a WTF look in their eye and mouth hanging open.
In a relationship I feel boundaries need to be discussed beforehand and occasionally revisited for reminders and updates. I feel we should push ourselves to the edge of our comfort zone at times and we should be willing to at least try something with our partners if they are interested and its not a total veto on the limit list. I make the statement I will absolutely NOT have anything to do with A, B, C, or D. If a partner approaches me about a grey area pushing the edge... I dont know, an example might be... NFW will I have anything to do with scat but I am not totally creeped out by urine...No, I dont have the desire to let someone P on me or to P on someone but might be able to consider it if its something my partner might want to try. Assuming that urine is not specifically listed in the list of no ways does not mean its a full on P for all either. No honey, animals are on the NFW list but you sure look cute in your furry suit. The edge of the boundary. And no, I personally am not a urine fan, a furry or a furry fan. Just examples. For some its as simple as ok, Ill blow you but I am NOT swallowing type of thing.Comment
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I read this Just-a-regular and i thought "cumming on a womans breasts" !! thats tame isnt it and surely would not be considered anything but the norm !! women who are not on birth control still have great sex but most will share with he partner a safer way ...(not counting the pull-out method ) i prefer the way you mentioned ....in fact i dont think i have had sex and had a man come in me ...so that , strangely enough would be my ultimate !! just as well im a fussy woman with a guy as i prefer it that way ...yoou knowi have to adore him for that !!! the other two i also dont consider to be too far ..just normal along with oral sex ....some people would consider cumming on the feet of the woman strange ...i dont !! or a little toe sucking at the same time ,...quite erotic but i agree with fallen best talk to the partner ...as every woman is differentThank you for the replies..... I do realize that we have to talk - and we do.... I guess what I'm asking is for feedback on areas to proceed carefully.... perhaps someone has had an experience that wasn't thrilling or they felt degraded..... for instance.... cumming on a women's breasts.... or having her squat over my mouth.... what about asking her to suck on my balls..... anything out there that you could share to definately talk about thoroughly before trying???
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CW i agree with you ...making suggestions when youve been with someone for a short while for a third party is bang out of order !! and it has happend to me ...and i was a little miffed at the suggestion !! however it was his fantasy to see me with another woman ...and yes a normal fantasy for a man ...i wasnt angry at the woman suggestion i just thought ...too soon to suggest ...and the rest of your comments yes i agree ....PFI think if you discuss both having "no boundries, no inhibitions" then there will be nothing that is degrading to each other, as you are in love with each other.
I think degrading is only when the trust hasn't been built up and your in a relationship, not marriage and he trys something without asking, or makes suggestions of a third party when you haven't even been together for that long, type of thing...
There is nothing you shouldn't try as long as your contsantly discussing it first as aposed to just doing it and then worried after about her reaction, ie) anual when she's not expecting.
But tied up when she's not expecting or blindfolded is a completely different thing, as you need some "suprise and unknown events" for them to be exciting....
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