[Private.Flangeamin]

Being spanked is submissive, which is hot. Spanking someone is very dominant, which is hot. Same goes for nipple pinching/twisting/torture.

As an aside any sort of discomfort before ejaculation only makes the orgasm better. The same principal involved with running a marathon; yes it sucks when you're doing it, but when you finish you get an amazing endorphine rush that compliments a climax nicely.

Yes ...exactly ...its just one of those thing whether a person is into that or not ...but i recommend everybody try it

Regards Catherine

[Private.Flangeamin]

I've seen this in porn... but I don't get it.... what about it is the allure?? How does it make you feel..... and BTW what's all this about twisting the nipple during sex/foreplay... does that feel good too.... I thin kmy wife might not agree with you.... please arm me with some straight talk about it.... you all are the experts...

The allure ..yes its about the mixture of pleasure and pain ..it heightens the pleasure ...eg...spanked and intercourse ..a spank ...then a sexual thrust from the guy or a spank and a very gente erotic kiss then another spank ...FANTASTIC ...the nipple thing it depends on whether that paticular womans is sensitive ...mine are and i quite like a little bit of a pinch among other things ...naughty ...but NICE !!!

Regards, catherine

[plainjane5]

I've never really thought about why I like, I just know that I do. I guess I like the fact that I know my partner feels more contorlling and I love the more "rough"/ "aggressive" sex than other perhaps.

As for the nipple twist, I love my nipples being teased and played with. They are very sensitive and sometimes if I'm in the mood just a LITTLE pain feels good. It's exciting for me.

[Private.Flangeamin]

I think the reasoning is a bit different for people who do like it. For me its the naughtiness. Its submissive without being degrading. Its aggressive without being abusive. It lets us know our partner is paying attention. The sting is kinda sweet too. Alot of different sensations going on at once. The nipple twist? I dont personally like it. Pinching maybe but twisting...those arent nobs. It doesnt feel good or bad and I get nothing from it so would rather have something done that I do react to.

Uneeklymee, well...we had our disagreements ...but on this i agree ...
Private Flange

[mosach]

Side effects "I" luuuvvvvviiiiittttttttttttttttt

I like my shugah to suck me till I'm almost there and then whack me right across the *** till the pain makes me thrust my self forwards just like when I'm in the "F" scenario with my legs and but stiff.

The combination of pain and pleasure really makes me feel that I'll pop a ventricle some day.