[Dollface2008]

Its funny reading this thread because I experienced the exact same situation last night, but I refused to swallow it. Current partner finds it to be a huge turn on when a girl can go down on him and then swallow afterwards. I personally cannot stand the taste of cum it makes me gag. So I usually give oral until I can feel that hes ready then I take my mouth off and finish with my hands. I would havta agree with previous posters that it is a bit rude that he assumes you to take his load in your mouth then brush your teeth. In the event that he does let it go before I can get my mouth off I simply spitt it out and then we continue what we were doing kissing and all, and it goes both ways when he pleases me, and I please him via oral sex. So if he needs your teeth brushed before he kisses you, then I would tell him he will have to get over himself if he wants oral from you. Because its quite the favor that your already doing him. Just my opinion.

[Uneeklyme]

He is wierd....
Every man has a desire to have a "full" blowjob.... to release fully and to relax in her mouth as he comes back down to earth..... that's what a blowjob is.... otherwiase it's a lickjob or a nibblejob.... the fact that he freaked out is his problem.... if you go as far as to give him a full blowjob, he should not be grossed out by it... there's nothing gross about it... Does he bring you to climax in his mouth... do you run from him... do you require him to gargle with mouthwash right afterward??

IT'S JUST THE TWO OF YOU!!! RELAX..... If you want to be grossed out try eating balut (I used this analogy in another post too) Tell him to get a grip.... you did a wonderful thing and I think you're terrific and have a great attitude about oral sex that many women need - they can be so suppressed and tight.... very puritanical - real old days.... makes for lousy boring sex.....

Keep up the good work!!!!

Not going to get into the women uptight blah blah thing but gotta say... some things in this post just cracked me up. In a good way so please dont get defensive. I was reading the lickjob or nibblejob comment and for some reason the saying BLOW is just an expression came to mind with a thought of unamed no faced couple with the woman on her knees in front of him blowing away like a fan and getting all frustrated cuz its not working, whats wrong.

CW calling him a little buggar cracked me up too.

As far as the OP. Some men just dont like the thought of potentially coming into contact with cum. Many times its a homophobe thing. Some people just dont like the taste. Weird? nah, jaded maybe tho. He should not have cum in your mouth if he is not ok with "jism" (another thing that cracked me up...thinking about teasing my sister one time and telling her she missed a spot of jism on her chin and my mom turning around and asking "what is jism")

[anonymouswhitefemale]

I think it's a turn on for every man when his woman swallows his cum, in fact, it's like a slap in the face to see your girlfriend grimace, turn away and spit it out. It's like saying "you and your sexuality revolt me".

Most men are going to be quite repulsed by cum, simply because of the deep level of homophobia instilled in men from an early age. Most men are subconciously terrified of doing anything that could be construed in that way.

I've tasted my own, and I in fact think it's quite nice, and I can't see what all the fuss is about, I'll kiss my girlfriend afterwards, just like I kiss her when my face is covered in her juices. It's just a part of sex.

But yeah, it's pretty cheeky expecting you to brush your teeth afterwards.

And dollface, have you any idea how frustrating it is for the girl to stop before the climax and use her hands? VERY is the answer to that question. By the way, you do know that if he shoots into the back of your mouth and you swallow, you won't even taste or feel it because your taste buds are at the front of your mouth?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Just-a-regular-guy
They can be so suppressed and tight.... very puritanical - real old days.... makes for lousy boring sex.....

Just curious there... Am i correct? You were a Virgin got married at 20, been married 20 years and just going for the real hot stuff? If so, are you referring to your "past life" not general? lol... in a nice way i mean this question...

If so, trust me, you would be no orphan, but we're not all you know, tight, bad sexual partners, old hat, old thought patterns, I'm as old as you babe.

Anonymous White Female
I think it's a turn on for every man when his woman swallows his cum, in fact, it's like a slap in the face to see your girlfriend grimace, turn away and spit it out. It's like saying "you and your sexuality revolt me".

I get that, your in the heat and height of your "element" and then a downer, but work with her hey? At least she is trying?

Now trying it more deeper when he ejaculates may be an answer, where "trying" is referenced....

CW

Was reading the lickjob or nibblejob comment and for some reason the saying BLOW is just an expression came to mind with a thought of unamed no faced couple with the woman on her knees in front of him blowing away like a fan and getting all frustrated cuz its not working, whats wrong.

Now that's amusing... that made me visualise myself last night and wonder why? lol.

Bugger is a cute terminology, i feel...


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[CHANDLERS WISH]

Uneeklyme

Was reading the lickjob or nibblejob comment and for some reason the saying BLOW is just an expression came to mind with a thought of unamed no faced couple with the woman on her knees in front of him blowing away like a fan and getting all frustrated cuz its not working, whats wrong.

Now that's amusing... that made me visualise myself last night and wonder why? lol.

Bugger is a cute terminology, i feel...

lol..

Sorry forgot to put you in front there, just reads like a speal out of, not sure?

CW

[Dollface2008]

And dollface, have you any idea how frustrating it is for the girl to stop before the climax and use her hands? VERY is the answer to that question. By the way, you do know that if he shoots into the back of your mouth and you swallow, you won't even taste or feel it because your taste buds are at the front of your mouth?[/QUOTE]

I can see it as frustrating to have a girl stop before climax but just as good of an orgasm can be achieved with added hand motion, i did it the other night and he had quite the "OH my" more so then any time I have given head to him. So it may be disapointing but still gets the job done without having to take a mouth full of his "jizm" haha i laughed at that one two but you haveta see here that this is how women of all ages talk. haha and further more although the idea of getting "shot" into the back of your mouth directly seems like it would be better, its not. trust me! and also im gonna havta second CW i think it was when she said "supposing he has good aim" and who has good aim when about to climax, the last thing on your mind is aiming.

[daniee.l]

hi thank u for all ur replys he doesnt force me to let him come in my mouth usualy he stops me wen hes about to come but i guess i was caught up in the heat of the moment or sumfing and i wanted to try it so i didnt stop. he says i am the first girl to give him head but i do find that hard to believe as he was with his last gf for 7 years u would think she would of at least tried it. he doesnt giv me oral he did once but he didnt like it so wont do it agen but if he did i would kiss him after. thanks agen for replys.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Now someone, somewhere here was talking about "prudes", Just-a-regular-guy? Anon?

Hun, i believe that you both are young? And i am hoping so, please don't get this the wrong way but your boyfriend is "prudish"...

He doesn't like giving you oral, so you won't get it. He usually takes himself away, so he doesn't cum in your mouth, but you wanted to give it a go and well, he then made you feel yuk, and brush your teeth....

Hope this doesn't last for ever and you marry him as you'll be that little lady of statistics, wanting more and getting non...

Keep being adventurous, it's in your nature, don't ever let someone else change you, that's your make up and you should be having fun.

Just an opinion....

Take care.

CW

[daniee.l]

hiya yea we r both young well i am any way hes 25 an im 17 im 18 on sunday but i have more sexual experiance than him. i do love him and i do wna marry him 1 day.not sure wat u mean about being a stastistic??

[CHANDLERS WISH]

hiya yea we r both young well i am any way hes 25 an im 17 im 18 on sunday but i have more sexual experiance than him. i do love him and i do wna marry him 1 day.not sure wat u mean about being a stastistic??

Happy Birthday for Sunday, foremost!!!! Have a great day.

Have a read on some of the threads here on sex, bj's...

But if you have more experience than he does, that's okay, but you like to try new things, correct? Experiement a bit? Have fun and enjoy the sexuality side, give a bit...

But, you will not like a life of him not giving other than penetration, maybe now but later?

But if he's in-experienced then maybe he needs you to push a few buttons and be a bit more equal so to speak so you both enjoy the intimacy together, not one way, does that make sense?

CW