[Little_Man_in_the_Boat]

Its not your fault.

Sadly I feel most men learn how to have sex through porn.

Porn actors are doing it for money.

Its not how you should make love.

Imagine learning from a script how to have sex with girl A.

Missionary

Doggystyle

Reverse cowgirl

...

Followed by felatio and ejaculate on the face.

Pfft.

Its so pathetic.

Thats not how make love to a young women.

People are supposed to love each other.

Start out as freinds.

Then close freinds.

Respect.

Courting.

Eventually you kiss.

Then you get engaged.

Marriage

Then you make love to your wife.

A man should read everything he can to educate himself.

I dont mean penthouse magazine.

I mean science based knowledge.

This horrible way people have sex now is devoid of any love or caring.

Not even a relationship anymore.

Get on Tinder and look through a list of people your interested in and then get it on.

Horrible.

A man should know how to make love to a women.

There should be some instructions on how a man does it with love and compassion.

Not blame you for not having enough experience.

If you havent had many partners think very very carefully about STDs.

Ideally you'd go for a virgin and get married.

But thats not how its done now.

Sad age we live in now.

I cant tell you how to live your life or who to date.

Anyway its not your fault and he needs to learn how to make love to you.

If he can't them you might want to think about somebody who is more knowledgable who take yoy buy the hand and lead you to the bedroom and knows what hes doing.

A compasionate loving caring man.

Anyway hopefully this helps your situation.

[BlueLeprechaun]

Watching porn and having sex with your boyfriend more often will surely rid off the awkwardness and sooner you will be confident on what you are doing.

[BlueLeprechaun]

Why do you think so?

[BlueLeprechaun]

Why do you think so?

[deep-evie]

My boyfriend and I have been experiencing a bit of a sexual rut lately. We had a talk about it last night, and he mentioned that it's hard for him, because he's used to dating girls with much more experience than I have. (He is one of my first sexual partners) I'm nervous to try new things, because I'm afraid of being awkward. Do you have any advice on how to get over the awkwardness, and what to do to seem more experienced?

Hunni, start riding him more, works wonders. Have you got a dildo? or a toy you can ride in private? Like anything you get better with practise, start practising riding of the toy if your too embarrassed to really go for it with him at the moment, once you know your pretty decent at riding, push in the bedroom for you to ride and go on top and shock him, when i first started sex for a few years i was aweful!! i used to lay there like a fish sometimes, after a lot of toy practise infront of a mirror riding my toy i grew more confident, i started to enjoy watching myself ride the toy, thats when i knew i was ready to take my skills to the real thing.

Nowadays im good enough at being the top cowgirl that if a man is bad in bed, i get on top and the session turns great, its a useful skill to know. Other people may have done different things, but thats how i got good.

[jns]

My boyfriend and I have been experiencing a bit of a sexual rut lately. We had a talk about it last night, and he mentioned that it's hard for him, because he's used to dating girls with much more experience than I have. (He is one of my first sexual partners) I'm nervous to try new things, because I'm afraid of being awkward. Do you have any advice on how to get over the awkwardness, and what to do to seem more experienced?

Does your bf bring you to orgasm by giving you oral sex? In my experience, getting her involved with the rewards of good sex goes a long way in the trust department and that can lead to more adventurous sex.

[Texasred]

Hunni, start riding him more, works wonders. ...go on top and shock him...


Nowadays im good enough at being the top cowgirl that if a man is bad in bed, i get on top. ...thats how i got good.

That's perfect advice.
I know I learned a great deal from a very patient, very experienced, much older woman - she was in her 60s when I was 40 - and every woman I've known since then has been (along with me!) the beneficiary!
The very best thing she taught me was to enjoy the cowgirl, and surrendering control to her.