[Texasred]

If I were able to give dudes advice, not that I claim to be a sexpert: never demean a woman for her sexual past (all women have a sexual past), never violate a woman's trust.

That really applies to everyone, don't you think? I believe that if men were to treat women with the respect that they expect and would demand of other men, the world - and relationships! - would be a better place!

[a_dub]

Hi Jessa,

But what she really wants is to be watched while having sex, that and completely submitting herself to the desires of another dude.

I must say that I do have voyeuristic fantasies all the time. I have never had the opportunity to see people screwing, but I'd definitely take it up if I had the chance.

[WaveRider]

Hi a_dub,

My g/f banged one of her boyfriends in front of another couple in a college dorm room. She told me that having another man watch her banging her b/f exposed her to a very high plane of sexual arousal. She loves being naked in front of men, and she loves being watched. She has told me that on two other occasions with two other boyfriends, she sensed that their roommates were watching her banging her boyfriends.

If an environment were right, I'd bang her while other dudes were watching.

I hope you have the chance to experience your fantasy. It seems as though many people forgo their fantasies only to regret not experiencing them. I believe that as long as everyone's good with what's gonna happen, let it roll, baby, roll all night long.

[Jessa1998]

Hi Jessa,

Thanks

For about a month, she didn't mention it. The other night, she was graphic about wanting another dude in bed with us. She wants me to find a resort where she can watch other couples having sex. But what she really wants is to be watched while having sex, that and completely submitting herself to the desires of another dude.

I've had 2 experieces where i was really drunk at parties and had sex w/ multiple guys in front of a small crowd. One time it was 2 guys and they took a couple turns each. There were like 5 people watching and it was soooo insane. I didnt have much sexual experience at all when this happened and i loved it. I didn't get another chance like that for awhile but then i was at this party a few months ago and a was getting w/ a guy in the living room surrounded by people. I mean it started just making out but it just kept going farther and I know I was encouraging that. After awhile i was completely naked and having sex in front of like 20 people. A few more guys took turns too. I was pretty drunk so it's all a little blurry. But I would do it again right now if I could, drunk or not!