[Stillness]

amy40 Yes, I took your claim that it was you as a joke. I know you're too thoughtful and sincere for that. That's what made it funny. But, it was your joke, not mine.

[amy40]

foot and a half struck me as funny but thought you were exaggerating, didn't know there was actual poster

[Ashlee T.]

Please stop deleting posts that you make here. If you don't want it posted, don't post it. But don't post it, then delete it after there are multiple responses to it. It is confusing for other members who come to read and potentially respond to the thread. Nothing you all are saying here makes much sense at all, due to posts being deleted.

Anyway, I think for most women, size DOES matter. The difference is, to what extent does it matter. That is the part that differs from woman to woman. Within reason, I have always felt like girth was more important than length because it provides the sensation of fullness.

The sex I have enjoyed most has not been with the men who have the biggest packages. They have been mostly average.

[WaveRider]

I think drunk women tell tall tales

amy40,

I'd write that you're absolutely right.

[WaveRider]

You should use the search feature. There is tons of discussion here about this issue.

You get everyone from the wacky member that claims she needs a foot and a half to even start to be satisfied, to the ones that want something a little less than average, and everything in between.

This was particular to two friends who were heavily into wine.

I'm sure your right. Women don't know what they want until they get it, and a lot of times it has nothing to do with horizontal gymnastics.

[WaveRider]

Waverider.....don't think I could handle the conversations at your steak dinners

You have no idea how funny they are.

[WaveRider]

I've had three women tell me that when women say size doesn't matter, they're lying.

While I was in college I read an article in "Playboy" that I didn't completely understand at that time. It was about three lies women will tell: their age, their weight, and the number of sexual partners they've had. Maybe there's a fourth: size doesn't matter.

[WaveRider]

My g/f and other women have told me throughout my years that a sexual attraction of white women to black men is their size. I have no clue of how true it is.

I have seen porn where black dudes with enormous endowments were having sex with white women. I'd of swore that there was no way the white women were going to be able to accomplish the tasks. While some moaned in pleasurable pain, they did it.

[WaveRider]

I have had a hectic day with a few welcomed breaks in between long bouts of manual labor. I did talk with my g/f for about an hour. I asked her if she remembered her conversation with my friend's g/f. She said she remembered most of it. However, she said that she was mostly agreeing with the other woman. She did say it's true, that size does matter, but it's not a deal breaker unless he's very small. She has had a long ago one-night-stand. When she felt how small his package was, she knew he was never going to work. She did do him. He wanted it again in the morning, but she lied her way out of it and never again saw him. She doesn't like really long ones either, especially giving head to a dude who thought she should take him all the way into her mouth. She said that I'm perfect size for her.

My g/f has had a lot of sexual partners. However, my friend's g/f has her whipped. My g/f told me that she was a very loose woman, and that's coming from a woman who was assuredly known as a s_l_u_t in college. She did love athletes. My friend's g/f keeps him happy, and that's all that matters. I've never fallen into the trap of talking numbers. What a woman has done before she dates me is none of my business, except if there is a health risk. For years I've listened to my girlfriend talking about one dude or another, her memory refreshed due to an event that caused her to remember a particular dude, like a football game, or a drinking game, or some sex event like risking being caught by her parents. The point is if any two women have package knowledge, it's them.

One topic my g/f rarely brings up is bad sex she's had, and that was almost exclusively with her ex-husband. He was older than her, yet sexually inexperienced. That would have been OK if he had been willing to learn. Not only did he not listen to her when she tried to teach him, he would demean her for asking him to do very innocent things like cum on her breasts or face. No man should ever demean a woman during sex. If there is an issue, it should be discussed in a respectful manner and outside of a bedroom.

All men should know that regardless of their package size, they should always listen without judgment, to their wives or girlfriends if they suggest a sex act or something she likes. Open and honest communication is crucial to a happy relationship, and a woman's trust must never be betrayed.

[amy40]

if this thread makes no sense, think it is because it's a commentary by waverider on his dinner conversations, not actually a thread about size.